He saw our ********

My boyfriend and I were having pretty hot sex one night and we didn't realized that our little boy was watching us and I gave my boyfriend a ******* now our little boy told a neighbor girl in front of her mom to suck his penis we can't tell him that it is wrong because we did it and he saw. What should I do???

[Kevin Kennedy, Ph.D.]

You can indeed tell him it is wrong - i.e., it is wrong for him to engage in that behavior. Don't be wishy-washy about it. I'm sure i don't need to tell you, but nonetheless: be more careful about your behavior. He should not be witnessing sexual activity.