Should I change the way I behave?

My question is just basically, I have recently been told that the way I interact with people is too open, too friendly. Apparently my boyfriend cannot love me for tat part of who I am so I want to change. I can explain further if needed. Fo example we're sitting in a circle  of people he is outside of the circle and everyone else feels uncomfortable. Is it my responsiblity to make sure he's included and having fun? Is it bad that I become hyper-focused on just who i'm talking to and that i forget to be aware as to whats going on around me?

[Kevin Kennedy, Ph.D.]

I really cannot glean from your description what the problem is. In a general sense, it's important to be careful about changes you are making and why you are making them. It's fine to please those whom we love, but it's not reasonable to think that we have to change for the purpose of pleasing someone if our behavior is not unreasonable in the first place. So, two questions to ask yourself are: What do I want to change about myself? Why do I want to change it?