penis erection

i m 23 & my penis gets erected almost any moment of time.
it doesnt require day or night or afternoon.
then it must be masturbuted as i could not control once it get excited.
because of it,penis gets masturbuted at least 2 times a day on an average.

is there any abnormality??

[Janice M Epp, PhD]

Hi.

Let's correct some misinformation. It seems to me like you’re under the impression that masturbation, or self-pleasuring, is somehow harmful or can be done “too much.”

When it comes to sex, everyone is different. There's no such thing as an "abnormal" amount of masturbation (self-pleasuring). Some people do it monthly; others daily; while for others, two or three times a day is just right. In other words, everyone is DIFFERENT. Whatever works for you is just right for you. No medical expert recognizes “over-masturbation” because there is no scientific evidence that there is any such thing, just as there’s no such thing as “under-masturbation.”

Your body is telling you that it's turned on and wants orgasms. Listen to your body. It has its own wisdom.

Let’s talk about what we DO know about self-pleasuring.

It’s the surest way to orgasm and the most effective way to learn about our sexual response cycle, as well as the surest way men to learn orgasmic control.  If you feel you come too quickly, the surest way to slow down is to teach yourself a new pattern via self-pleasuring.

Another advantage is self-knowledge: How can you show a partner what you like if you don’t know yourself?

And the #1 reason for self-pleasuring: it’s fun!

Self-pleasuring is a part of who you are sexually—for your whole life, not just when you don’t have a partner. People self-pleasure from birth to death, when they’re alone and when they’re partnered. It’s just one of many options we have as sexual beings. It’s not better or worse than partner sex, just different—like steak is different than chicken.

Remember that all our scientific data show that the people who take responsibility for their OWN pleasure have the best sex lives and rate themselves as happiest about their sexuality. So please stop torturing yourself, accept your sexuality as a gift and start enjoying life. Dr. J

[Sparkyasks]

Is it possible to tell if someone has masturbated by looking at their penis?