Falling apart

[Ashdub07]

So I found text messages between my husband and like 3 or 4 girls. One he was asking for pics because shes "always been sexy"...she used to date his cousin! And one from Dallas who he was telling he loved and wanted to go are her and take her out...she's also married...and a couple other skanks. It literally broke my heart into pieces and I told him I couldn't do this and gathered my kids and left our new apartment and drove 3 hours back to the old house. I am at such a loss and he has calle and said how much he loves me and it's not over between us. I just don't know what to do. He ****** up. And he won't take responsibility and I can't stay with someone who has no respect for me and this is our third baby! I am just so upset idk what to do.

[randabby]

My ex was cheating on me since day 1 of me finding out I was pregnant. I'm now 6 days over due and he has not once asked about MY daughter. He is a piece of ****. And so is your "husband" move on girl! You'll find someone better some day! Just love your kids with all your heart.

[RazisMama]

Ok now that I am on my lap top and no my stupid phone, it is so tough to leave someone you love or even someone because your so use to them. I am still hanging onto a thread of hope with my sons dad and we are destroyed completely. There is no use is feeling pain because your trying to fix something or make something work that never will. He can tell you anything and get you to stay just because you are vulnerable right now. He will not change for you and you will never be happy if you don't trust him. Im just rambling but I hope you dont stay with someone that causes you pain because every other aspect of your life eventually becomes dull when you get hit when more and more bull.****. I hope you find peace.

[KTowne]

I wouldn't expect it to get better overnight you know? your whole world was just turned upside down, but someday this will be just a bad memory, it will all work itself out. i really believe everything happens for a reason, and maybe there is just some seriously amazing HOT man out there waiting for you and your kids.. you deserve the best and you'll get that.

[Ashdub07]

Thanks for all your advice and encouragement and I think I made the right choice by leaving. I'm so sick over it but maybe tomorrow will be better

[katngary143]

U didn't do anything wrong its him he is just lost and doesn't know what he wants and he likes this attention which u cant do anything about bc he is his own person if u forgive him he is just going to keep on doing it it wont change and u can get mad as u want but it won't help the situation its not your issue its his so he has to help himself

[sandy_baby3oct6]

You make it by continuously telling yourself you won't let him do this to you by telling yourself that you deserve better and by telling yourself that your happiness is worth too much to continue to put yourself through all this grief say it over and over and over every day for as long as you need to.  My ex lost his job came home got drunk with a bunch of his friends in our backyard he came in the house while i was sleeping with my daughter and was talking all sweet to someone on the phone then i watched him empty his pockets looking for something and stumbleback outside i got up too look at his phone and found a dozen little love notes between him and some **** talking about being together and loving each other and can't wait to feel your soft lips i freaked out and did the same thing you did grabbed my daughter took his phone the keys to our car and left to a friends house its hard it really is but its necessary i really hope you get through this alright on a good note after i finally left him for good i met my now husband a month later and have never been happier he's been through the same thing we have and i trust him completely you'll find your happiness again hun i promise that its gonna hurt for what seems like forever but it won't be forever and you will be happy again promise :)