Falling apart

[Ashdub07]

So I found text messages between my husband and like 3 or 4 girls. One he was asking for pics because shes "always been sexy"...she used to date his cousin! And one from Dallas who he was telling he loved and wanted to go are her and take her out...she's also married...and a couple other skanks. It literally broke my heart into pieces and I told him I couldn't do this and gathered my kids and left our new apartment and drove 3 hours back to the old house. I am at such a loss and he has calle and said how much he loves me and it's not over between us. I just don't know what to do. He ****** up. And he won't take responsibility and I can't stay with someone who has no respect for me and this is our third baby! I am just so upset idk what to do.

[randabby]

My ex was cheating on me since day 1 of me finding out I was pregnant. I'm now 6 days over due and he has not once asked about MY daughter. He is a piece of ****. And so is your "husband" move on girl! You'll find someone better some day! Just love your kids with all your heart.

[breee08]

"never take advice from someone who doesn't have to deal with the outcome" stay strong and do whatever you feel is right. You did the right thing to show it's not okay. Everyone is different. I wish you the best

[GordonBaby]

You deserve what is best for you and your children. Cheating/engaging with others sexually or lustfully is selfish. There is no reason that after three children and a marriage that he shouldn't be ale to come to you if he is lacking something. Again....selfish. You already know what to do. Im sorry you have to endure this ****. You come off as a very strong woman, I have a gut feeling that you will be just fine : )

[Ashdub07]

Gosh I had to shut my phone off last night so I wouldn't answer it or text him back. Woke up this morning and you're right, Ktowne, it still sux. :/ I am so glad I found this forum I have never ha this much support before. Thank you ladies so much. You really have no idea how much I appreciate your kind words

[Ashdub07]

And Razismama I hope your situation with your husband/boyfriend gets better too. Gosh I wish I could give you any kind of advice but right now I really don't know what to say but I'm sure you will make the right decision for you and your babies, or maybe he will pull his head out of his a s s and see that after everything you are still there beside him.

[MrsCookii]

I read all of these post and they are all right! Almost a year ago I was the happiest person ever being with the man of my dreams I was with him since middle school I'm 24 now I loved him with all my heart and I could never see us separated he was the one I wanted to be with for the rest of my life. I found out he cheated multiple times but I couldn't bare to leave him but when I found messages my heart would sink and I felt like I couldn't breathe. I forgave him because like I said I didn't want anyone else but once I did I couldn't trust him at all and every minute in thinking he is up to something always going through his phone next thing you know that's all I'm doing. And still I kept forgiving him but at this point he just don't give a **** because I keep forgiving him. Well he ended up going to prison and I felt like I lost everything in my life when they took him, then I'm sitting there cleaning his car and I found a whole bunch of cell phones I never seen before and there all activated I don't think I have to tell you what's on the phones. I just broke down thinking why is my husband doing this to me, I saved him from the guy that shot him, stayed at the hospital the whole two months I didn't wanna leave with out him... I've done so much for him... I told him I found all of his phones and he starts apologizing because he got caught because he didn't try to come tell me on his own I had to find it for him to be sorry. Point of this story is I finally had the courage to leave him, it wasn't easy at all but you have your kids to help you cope because trust me if you do go back your just giving him permission, if your going to go back don't go back now make him think he lost his family had hopefully it will change his act. Me I met the most amazing guy ever and a couple months later I was pregnancy by him, I went to visit my husband in prison to tell him because we are still friends and he just broke down and cried. All I could say was now you seen how I felt all of these years. He said I was trying to get you pregnancy for yrs and I told him that you can't be sleeping with different women and say hey I just want to get this one pregnant it don't work like that! Sorry its so long I just wanted to share my story with you. It will get better trust me!