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1700380 tn?1308585783

How many of you women....

Have ever, or regularly, masturbate in order to "prime" yourself before intercourse??

This might seem like a silly question, but to me, and I would assume to most men, the idea seems a bit odd, if only because the end result would be a negative one for most guys who might try this tactic. I don't mean masturbating until you get off. That would make a little sense for a guy who might want to last longer, to masturbate shortly beforehand, since the second one always takes longer than the first.

I'm talking about just masturbating enough to "get yourself ready", I suppose?? I mean, if I did that, it would be horrible for my wife because I would be ready to explode in no time after getting started (Which can already be an issue as it is).

But I do know you ladies are different in terms of sex and reaching orgasm, so I COULD see where it makes sense. So again, do you normally do this? Or do you at times, depending on the situation? Or is thie idea of this just as proposterous to most women as it seems to a man?? Let me know...
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Ya know....Something you need to remember is, we woman are capable of multiple orgasms. So if she gets hers, and gets hers again with you. Consider yourself a lucky man and go with it. It is her rhythm. If she is in tune to her sexuality, or if she is shy in the bedroom. Woman are all different. you must remember this. We change all of the time too. I mean not to throw a monkey wrench in it for you, but how else to we keep that "chase" going. A real woman is a prize to be won in the eyes of every man. If she wants to get under her hood and check her own oil and "Prime" the engine... let her. You will benefit in the end. Just sayn
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1700380 tn?1308585783
Yeah thats kinda the answer I was expecting
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282524 tn?1348489012
i dont, evry now n then with 4play with my husband there
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