and a family friend makes it better? and everyday people have std's as well...not just hookers. it's not limited to those who get paid for sex. and not all hookers have std's. it's very rude to think only hookers have them.
I'm not sure withholding the truth in a situation like this is 'sneaky'; he's protecting his wife from his moment of idiocy. Actually, it would be far easier in some ways to just confess, rather than live with this secret, but yes, ignorance can be bliss and if the husband is sincerely remorseful, why open up a can of worms? And I think all this talk of an std.. It was family friend, not a hooker.
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I would not want to know---- especially if my husband spent the rest of his life making it up to me!!
i would rather my husband tell me than find out from a stranger...or worse get an std. i think i'd be less mad if he just told me. being sneaky and hiding it would push me over the edge and i would divorce him.
I agree 100% I would not want to know either. If my husband realized that he made a mistake and spent the rest of his life making it up to me by treating me good and never cheating on me again, then I would rather live with my husband in happiness. He learned from his mistake even without his wife finding out. Good enough for me.
I agree - no point in telling her if it is a one-time mistake that won't be repeated. Cheaters do not always gets found out and sometimes, ignorance is bliss. I know that if I was in her position, I would prefer not to know.
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