insecure about my boyfriend..

[MamaBear96]

My boyfriend & I are 3 years apart. I'm 19, he's 22. We've been together for a year & I've been insecure since the start! I have no reason to be! I think its because I got screwed over by this guy I thought I loved about 2 years ago. He made me believe EVERYTHING he told me & turns out he was cheating & left me in a horrible way. I'm taking it out on my baby! I love him so much & he loves me! I know this because his mom even said he's never fought for or cried for any girl except me. He's always given up when they threatened to leave. Its just ALL the girls here seem to want him! He's deleted every girl out of his phone & off facebook to prove to me I'm the only one. I didn't request it he just did it. I don't know what to do. I've tried to get over it but I can't! Ive always had a wall up when it came to guys but I tell him everything, he's really different! I just feel like I'm gonna lose him because of my insecurities :'( any advice?

[babygsmommy]

Thank you!(:

[proudFTMTeTe]

Same to u Hun! Gl with ur pregnancy n relationship God Bless :)

[MamaBear96]

Thank you. This really made me realize I need to try harder for my relationship! I appreciate you girls advice! GL with your pregnancies!  (:

[proudFTMTeTe]

Being insecure isn't good for the relationship he may b fine now but eventually he will get tried of trying to prove to u he not cheating if ur just going to continue to assume of u have something good just trust n believe n let things flow ik how it feels cuz my bf is like to good to b true he has never cheated n always tells me the truth n is just as excited bout the baby as I am just try to not think bout wat could go wrong n enjoy having someone special its wonderful Hun me n my bf never really argues I love being with him everyday n wen were not around I trust he always has my heart in his mind n won't do anything to heart me intentionally I have ben hurt by pass relationships but u can't let ur pass mess with ur future :)

[MamaBear96]

Thanks girl! I will try that & I'm here if you ever need to talk too! (:

[babygsmommy]

Oh gosh I'm the same way!. I'm 18 and my bf is 21. He did cheat on me in the beginning but it was just a one time thing and ever since then he is all about us and the baby. just try talking to your man. telling him how you feel. i honestly have gotten worse about my insecurities since being pregnant. but i understand completely I'm here if you ever need to talk!(:  good luck.

[MamaBear96]

Also, he's extremely honest. If I doubt him I tell him to promise & if he's lying he won't. He does the same to me & he tells me everything whether I wanna hear it or not. I just trip a lot & I admit it. I don't accuse him of cheating all the time I keep it to myself mostly cuz ill sound stupid for bringing it up. I just worry