Good morning or evening or day or night or afternoon ladies and gentlemen and hello. My name is Hamed Khatiz and I am a sixteen year old student, writer, drummer, adviser, cricketer, shooter guard, friend, former friend, singer and many more from Sydney.
What are the motives behind divorce and break-ups. You marry someone you love, you promise to them and maybe to yourself that you will live your life with this person and love this person forever and five years down the track, affairs happen, phone records are checked, denials are made, near interrogations are held and many more.
Why do you marry someone if all this is going to happen later down the track. Why do you take the pledge to love, obey and protect your partner when very soon down the track, you leave them wondering as I am wondering. You leave them to gather their emotions and recover from extreme emotional anguish themselves. What ever happened to the vows of marriage?
I talked to a beautiful friend of mine, named Maria, who said she was having trouble getting through a break up after nine months. I advised her that maybe it is for the best. Maybe this breakup was to make way for someone, the real one. On My Way by Boyce Avenue, the man for you is coming.
But when I hear these stories of people who are dead set tattered, betrayed, left to pick up the pieces alone, I wonder if people really love people, why would they betray them, hurt them, abandon them even after the divorce. Why take the vows to break them two years later?
You must get this question a lot and before you say anything, I am only sixteen and I have absolutely no clue about divorces, I admit that, so then this is why I want to know. To help other people, to know myself. So take it easy when you write your answer.
Thank you.
Hamed Khatiz.