I think there is more to this post, than what is being said , also it-does not sound just right to me, no one puts up with stalking, and accepts gifts at the same time, and no I would not trust him jo
For real - this is a little creepy. It's like if you married a murderer - would you be worried because they didn't try to murder you???
Maybe it was taken out of context, but I can't imagine this whole scenario. Therapy - lots and lots of therapy........
I think the stalked woman was the poster's husband's brother's wife's sister.
Anyway, I agree..this is confusing to follow and creepy.
Would I trust the husband? No, and I don't know why you married him if you knew about the stalking beforehand. Did it not bother you when you met him that he stalked someone for 5 years and was still doing so (paying her phone bill, which is also confusing--what the heck, did she want to be stalked just to have a free phone)?
Your sister in law's sister would also be your sister in law and your husband's sister. So he was stalking his own sister?
I will assume you didn't mean to paint that picture.
And you met him while it was still going on? I'd be asking myself why I got involved with someone who was in the midst of stalking/harassing someone else in the first place.
Stalking usually is because of unrequited obsession. I bet if you blew him off for good he just might stalk you also. Does that make you feel more appreciated? This is creepy on many different levels. I would go to a good counselor. The issues you need to address are your own.