which one will last

[kiki2007]

if you could only have one, which would you go for to be with forever. the guy who is full of life, outgoing, so much fun but doesnt have a stable job/career. or the guy who has a stable job/career but has the most boring pesonality and doesnt do anything for fun. remember you have to be with them FOREVER!!!!!!!!

[AnxiousGurl]

Money isnt everything, as long as he's got a job, stable or not.... I pick the fun one! But the guys gotta have a job.........he cant be a funny/outgoing/bum!

[gagootza]

it all boils down to one thing whioh one do you care about the most? if he doesn't have a stable job then you wouldn't want to think about getting married untill you both were financially capable.what happens if he loses his job,will he lay back and depend on you to be the bread winner or will he get right out there and find another job.some will lay back and take a long vacation and depend on the women.and the other guy that has a boaring personality may or may not change once he has someone to share his life with.and being with him and married may change that aspect of his life.life is what you make it.you could be poar and still have anteresting life.your choice

[Judy246]

Hey, Rose...welcome back, it' been a while.

[megochick101]

LOL Rockrose! that's what i was initially thinking too but i decided eh if I HAD to choose it'd be the outgoing one lol

[teko]

LOL!  Good to c ya posting again!

[RockRose]

Neither!  There's no way I'd spend the rest of my life with some guy who refuses to hold a job,  or with some guy who is a joyless bore.

[mami1323]

I will take the fun guy over the guy with money.  Money can't buy you love is the saying.  I think money can come in time but I will not live my life being bored to tears.

[Judy246]

I don't mind teaching a few things (lol):)....I like the fun guy too.  Can I keep them both, one for fun the other dinner, movies, financial stability:)

[imanaddict]

I have the first one and love him so very much. Granted we are broke all the time, but we have a happy marriage and that is something money cannot buy!

P.S. What good is having money if your boring spouse won't have any fun??

[megochick101]

The outgoing one. I mean money is nice to have but I'd rather have a man that i'm interested in than be rich with a guy I find dull.

[iam1butterfly]

personality trumps money... I'd choose the 1st.

[jenkaye21]

I would go for the fun one, provided he can committ to forever and be loyal!  Money is not everything!

[teko]

Well, I have the latter and would definately go for the first one. I am so totally bored and each day I just get older!

[jojo24]

I would go for the outgoing guy.  It's never too late to start a career and you only have so much life to live.  I love to have fun.  I wouldn't want to spend my life with a dull person.
Jojo

[Judy246]

Boring guy with money only if he is cute :) I would teach him how to have fun lots of fun and make a bad boy out of him (opssss).