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HELP PLEASE! Missed periods, still a virgin, 14 years old...what's going on?
Okay, well I'm a 14 year old girl and I missed my last period. It worried me alot even though I've never had sex. Now, my period is really late and I'm really scared and stressed. I've had a boyfriend for 3 months and I really love him, but I DO NOT let him do anything that I'm not ready for. So I'm still a virgin, and I don't plan on that changing any time soon, but anyway, I don't know what's going on. I'm afraid to tell him or my mom, because I know my mom will immediately start accusing me of being I ginormous ***** and destroying my purity WHICH I HAVEN'T DONE. The most I've done is wrapped my legs around his waist while we were in a pool. In swimsuits. So I don't think anything could've happened there...but anyway, I really need some help here. I'm scared beyond words, you guys. Please answer as soon as possible. Thank you.
UPDATE
Alright, well I took a pregnancy test today to see if I'm pregnant because I missed my period last month and I should've started yesterday but I haven't. I'm 14 and a virgin, but I've been showing some signs of pregnancy and I'm very, very scared and paranoid. I just wanted to be sure. I took one today and it said it was negative. It recommended to take it in the morning I think, but it was around 10:00 or 11:00 pm. It's been around a month since my last period should've started. I've been eating a lot less lately and I've been very stressed. I woke up with a headache yesterday and last month my stomach was cramping like period cramps. My breasts might've grown a little bit but they're not sore at all. I've been looking kinda bloated lately, but it might just be me. I know I haven't had sex, but vaginas are weird and complicated, y'know? The most "sexual" thing I ever did with my boyfriend was wrap my legs around his waist in a pool while he carried me around. In our swimsuits. And I'm PRETTY SURE he didn't ***...because we weren't really doing anything besides kissing and floating around at a waterpark. I would've known? Right? I dunno, I guess there's a lot that I still don't know. But like I said, it's been around a month and I took my pregnancy test today. I didn't really have to pee so it took a while and I was rushed to try to force it out, which is pretty impossible to do when you're peeing. I touched the absorbent part of the test for less than a second before I used it. Would this change the result? Is there anything else I should do? I feel like I'm going to miss this period as well. Should I go to a doctor? What are the odds of a false negative? BECAUSE I REALLY NEED TO KNOW. It's stressing me out so much and I'm so scared.
PS: sorry if its too much information, but I have masturbated (well not really, just feeling around) before, and I don't think my hymen could've broke, but that was a while ago.
PPS: when I missed my period the first time,I put a tampon in just to be sure, and when I took it out, it had a little light brown/pinkish stuff on it, but then that was it. I felt sick today, but I think it was just from the nerves when I told my mom...because she jumped to conclusions...
UPDATE
Alright, well I took a pregnancy test today to see if I'm pregnant because I missed my period last month and I should've started yesterday but I haven't. I'm 14 and a virgin, but I've been showing some signs of pregnancy and I'm very, very scared and paranoid. I just wanted to be sure. I took one today and it said it was negative. It recommended to take it in the morning I think, but it was around 10:00 or 11:00 pm. It's been around a month since my last period should've started. I've been eating a lot less lately and I've been very stressed. I woke up with a headache yesterday and last month my stomach was cramping like period cramps. My breasts might've grown a little bit but they're not sore at all. I've been looking kinda bloated lately, but it might just be me. I know I haven't had sex, but vaginas are weird and complicated, y'know? The most "sexual" thing I ever did with my boyfriend was wrap my legs around his waist in a pool while he carried me around. In our swimsuits. And I'm PRETTY SURE he didn't ***...because we weren't really doing anything besides kissing and floating around at a waterpark. I would've known? Right? I dunno, I guess there's a lot that I still don't know. But like I said, it's been around a month and I took my pregnancy test today. I didn't really have to pee so it took a while and I was rushed to try to force it out, which is pretty impossible to do when you're peeing. I touched the absorbent part of the test for less than a second before I used it. Would this change the result? Is there anything else I should do? I feel like I'm going to miss this period as well. Should I go to a doctor? What are the odds of a false negative? BECAUSE I REALLY NEED TO KNOW. It's stressing me out so much and I'm so scared.
PS: sorry if its too much information, but I have masturbated (well not really, just feeling around) before, and I don't think my hymen could've broke, but that was a while ago.
PPS: when I missed my period the first time,I put a tampon in just to be sure, and when I took it out, it had a little light brown/pinkish stuff on it, but then that was it. I felt sick today, but I think it was just from the nerves when I told my mom...because she jumped to conclusions...
Sometimes you dont get it for awhile if your seriously stressed or nervous. I know. My cousin had that happen to her for like a few months too.
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I'm 17 and I'm really nervous because I have not had a period sense September and it's January. I am getting really scared. I don't want to tell anyone about it but I might have to if I don't get it this month! Please I need advice! Also I know I'm not pregnant because I am still a virgin!
Im 17 and Im really nervous because I have not had a period sense September and its January. I am getting really scared. I dont want to tell anyone about it but I might have to if I dont get it this month! Please I need advice! Also I know Im not pregnant because I am still a virgin!
Don't worry. It's normal, and it will sometimes skip a month or two. Just be happy that you don't have to deal with it that month. Plus, if you haven't had sex, you definitely are NOT pregnant. You need the male's sperm, and if you haven't EVER had sex, then it's not possible for you to be pregnant.
This answer is for everyone in this situation the liquids are vaginal discharge are keeping the vaginal clean and making sure it's not dry. The female menstrual cycle isn't completely normal until age 20 your period may be missed a month or 2 it's completely normal and healthy..
Omg same except I'm 13 years old. I'm really scared. I have this app to track my period and it says I'm 6 days late!! I started my period May 9th and it was definitely my period, stomach cramps, bloating, mood swings, bleeding. And now it's a month and 6 days later and I still haven't started it! I told my mom and she said it's ok because when she first started she didn't always get her period every month. I still don't know if she was just trying to make up something to make me feel less scared. I really want to go to the doctor just to be sure, but before I do I want to see if it's really needed for me to go to the doctor? Please reply ASAP! Really really scared. I'm definitely not pregnant. I'm a virgin and I've never even had a boyfriend before, so that can't be it! Is there something wrong with me?
Okay hi I;m the same. Me and my boyfriend have done things just not sex and I am 100% a virgin his penis has never even been near me just his hand. But Im really worried as it has been nearly 2 months and the past 3 days IVe felt really sick and periody but still nothing has happened
I don;t have an answer but I;m 12 I haven;t had my period for 2 months now green/yellow discharge the Oder kinda spells like copper. I havent had sex cause duh Im twelve wth plus Im lesbian so why would I have sex?? The only sexual thing Ive done was airhumped my blanket but I did this for a while but stopped once I started my period then just randomly I started missing my periods and I;ve looked into it and it might be an infection witch I hope it isnt or it could just be late.. but I dont do sports Im not stressed and I just don&t know if I dont have it for 4 months even though I dontwant to Im gonna tell my mom
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