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HELP PLEASE! Missed periods, still a virgin, 14 years old...what's going on?

Okay, well I'm a 14 year old girl and I missed my last period. It worried me alot even though I've never had sex. Now, my period is really late and I'm really scared and stressed. I've had a boyfriend for 3 months and I really love him, but I DO NOT let him do anything that I'm not ready for. So I'm still a virgin, and I don't plan on that changing any time soon, but anyway, I don't know what's going on. I'm afraid to tell him or my mom, because I know my mom will immediately start accusing me of being I ginormous ***** and destroying my purity WHICH I HAVEN'T DONE. The most I've done is wrapped my legs around his waist while we were in a pool. In swimsuits. So I don't think anything could've happened there...but anyway, I really need some help here. I'm scared beyond words, you guys. Please answer as soon as possible. Thank you.
UPDATE
Alright, well I took a pregnancy test today to see if I'm pregnant because I missed my period last month and I should've started yesterday but I haven't. I'm 14 and a virgin, but I've been showing some signs of pregnancy and I'm very, very scared and paranoid. I just wanted to be sure. I took one today and it said it was negative. It recommended to take it in the morning I think, but it was around 10:00 or 11:00 pm. It's been around a month since my last period should've started. I've been eating a lot less lately and I've been very stressed. I woke up with a headache yesterday and last month my stomach was cramping like period cramps. My breasts might've grown a little bit but they're not sore at all. I've been looking kinda bloated lately, but it might just be me. I know I haven't had sex, but vaginas are weird and complicated, y'know? The most "sexual" thing I ever did with my boyfriend was wrap my legs around his waist in a pool while he carried me around. In our swimsuits. And I'm PRETTY SURE he didn't ***...because we weren't really doing anything besides kissing and floating around at a waterpark. I would've known? Right? I dunno, I guess there's a lot that I still don't know. But like I said, it's been around a month and I took my pregnancy test today. I didn't really have to pee so it took a while and I was rushed to try to force it out, which is pretty impossible to do when you're peeing. I touched the absorbent part of the test for less than a second before I used it. Would this change the result? Is there anything else I should do? I feel like I'm going to miss this period as well. Should I go to a doctor? What are the odds of a false negative? BECAUSE I REALLY NEED TO KNOW. It's stressing me out so much and I'm so scared.
PS: sorry if its too much information, but I have masturbated (well not really, just feeling around) before, and I don't think my hymen could've broke, but that was a while ago.
PPS: when I missed my period the first time,I put a tampon in just to be sure, and when I took it out, it had a little light brown/pinkish stuff on it, but then that was it. I felt sick today, but I think it was just from the nerves when I told my mom...because she jumped to conclusions...
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Hi, my name is Abby and I'm turning  14 next month. Its December and I haven't had my period since the summer. I PMS every month but no period comes. I'm starting to worry that there is something wrong with me. Ive always had irregular periods for 2 years. Im scared to tell my mom because she might take me to the doctor and i don't want people to look at me down there.  So when my mom gets her period, i wait for mine since I'm in sync with her. But my period never comes. Will my period permanently stop? If you can help email me ***@**** thanks
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me too oh my gosh what can i do
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I'm 14 and I missed 2 periods I'm a virgin
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Same I'm 14 my period was supost to come yesterday the 14th, I've had my period for 3 months but this is the first I've missed it I've never ever ever had sex in my life so idk what could cause it, I've got the cramps tho and this is the worst I've had cramps. I've not been eating as much recently as I just got braces so I couldn't eat as much but I'm back to normal eating now I'm really scared does anyone have any idea what this could be if you know please reply :)
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im going through the same thing idk what to do
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Ok so help me my period is 45 days late and the only sexual thing I've done is kiss someone once and I know that does nothing so help me I'm a virgin and I'm 45 days late plz answer quickly I'm very scared
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I need help I;ll be fifteen next month and I started my period when I had just turned 13 but i have not had my period for over a year and Ive never fooled around. When I was a baby I had to have my uterus stretched but I do t know if that would affect me now please help
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I have missed almost 2 months of my period and i haven't had sex! if u have answers for me please shoot me a text at 717-269-6115
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Dont worry about it. Eating less and stress can cause late periods mine is 19 days late and I've never had sex..... I have a lot of assignments due next week and its stressing me out and when Im stressed I tend to eat a lot less. So dont worry about it, you stressing is making it worse and when you are young you tend to miss your periods for a few months so its natural
Omg same with me! Please comment back if you figured out what was wrong. Thank you!!
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Ur not
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