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HELP PLEASE! Missed periods, still a virgin, 14 years old...what's going on?

Okay, well I'm a 14 year old girl and I missed my last period. It worried me alot even though I've never had sex. Now, my period is really late and I'm really scared and stressed. I've had a boyfriend for 3 months and I really love him, but I DO NOT let him do anything that I'm not ready for. So I'm still a virgin, and I don't plan on that changing any time soon, but anyway, I don't know what's going on. I'm afraid to tell him or my mom, because I know my mom will immediately start accusing me of being I ginormous ***** and destroying my purity WHICH I HAVEN'T DONE. The most I've done is wrapped my legs around his waist while we were in a pool. In swimsuits. So I don't think anything could've happened there...but anyway, I really need some help here. I'm scared beyond words, you guys. Please answer as soon as possible. Thank you.
UPDATE
Alright, well I took a pregnancy test today to see if I'm pregnant because I missed my period last month and I should've started yesterday but I haven't. I'm 14 and a virgin, but I've been showing some signs of pregnancy and I'm very, very scared and paranoid. I just wanted to be sure. I took one today and it said it was negative. It recommended to take it in the morning I think, but it was around 10:00 or 11:00 pm. It's been around a month since my last period should've started. I've been eating a lot less lately and I've been very stressed. I woke up with a headache yesterday and last month my stomach was cramping like period cramps. My breasts might've grown a little bit but they're not sore at all. I've been looking kinda bloated lately, but it might just be me. I know I haven't had sex, but vaginas are weird and complicated, y'know? The most "sexual" thing I ever did with my boyfriend was wrap my legs around his waist in a pool while he carried me around. In our swimsuits. And I'm PRETTY SURE he didn't ***...because we weren't really doing anything besides kissing and floating around at a waterpark. I would've known? Right? I dunno, I guess there's a lot that I still don't know. But like I said, it's been around a month and I took my pregnancy test today. I didn't really have to pee so it took a while and I was rushed to try to force it out, which is pretty impossible to do when you're peeing. I touched the absorbent part of the test for less than a second before I used it. Would this change the result? Is there anything else I should do? I feel like I'm going to miss this period as well. Should I go to a doctor? What are the odds of a false negative? BECAUSE I REALLY NEED TO KNOW. It's stressing me out so much and I'm so scared.
PS: sorry if its too much information, but I have masturbated (well not really, just feeling around) before, and I don't think my hymen could've broke, but that was a while ago.
PPS: when I missed my period the first time,I put a tampon in just to be sure, and when I took it out, it had a little light brown/pinkish stuff on it, but then that was it. I felt sick today, but I think it was just from the nerves when I told my mom...because she jumped to conclusions...
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Plz help i dont know whats going on and i think my period just left me and im still a virgin and its crazy and i dont know what to do its been 2 weeks
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2 weeks late? Or its been 2 weeks since u have gotten it?
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Well stress can prevent you from having your period and if your exercising that can prevent it , it is normal if you miss it just try to not be to concerned if you don't get it acouple more months down the line 3-4 then tell your mum to see a doctor as it could be something wrong
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I'm 14 and my period was due over a week ago which isn't much but I keep freaking out. I'm not cramping or throwing up and I'm not craving anything. My period is just gone.
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Tell me why Im in the same situation.
im having the same problem im 14,i missed my period last month,im just trying to find answers,im so scared...i cant tell my mom cause she'll jump to conclusions
Yes same as well.. I  turning 14 this month and its been one month and a half since my last period. I've been very worried and stressed but I am definetly a virgin! I've told my mother befor but she didn't know why..I am in a swim team and I swim everyday as my sport. I know that this is probably the cause of it but when does it stop?? I can't stop swimming practice becaude it's a sport I am committed to but..I don't know this is all making so stressed. Please help.
Yes same as well.. I  turning 14 this month and its been one month and a half since my last period. I've been very worried and stressed but I am definetly a virgin! I've told my mother befor but she didn't know why..I am in a swim team and I swim everyday as my sport. I know that this is probably the cause of it but when does it stop?? I can't stop swimming practice becaude it's a sport I am committed to but..I don't know this is all making so stressed. Please help.
Hey guys I'm am 13 years old almost 14....and I missed my period for the past two months and I'm a virgin.....AND I'M FREAKING OUT!!!!.... PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!
I'm 14 and 9 days late on my period and I tried looking it up and it said "your pregnant" but I'm a virgin and I have never had sex nor do I have a boy friend so I'm very confused. I've had period cramps and hard breast and I know that's signs of your period starting or are on your period and sometime I feel like I've started, but when I go to the bathroom nothing is there. I've had my period late by a month before and it came back so I'm not that scared, but I'm still confused. So does anyone have answers on why this is happening?
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im 13 and 2 weeks late and i had never had sex. i read some of the comments and im am  starting to calmdown but it is weird b/c it is my first time being late
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I'm 11 and I think about 3-4 months late, but I've never had sex. {{And I mean I do feel around sometimes, but it's normal}}. I'm really freaking out because I went to a friends house and didn't know there would be drinking. The dad there is pretty unstable and I think I could have been raped. But It's highly unlikely. I'm really scared though. But on your hand, it's normal to miss a period for 2 Weeks. Your period stops if you're stressed.
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OMG SAME. well actually I'm lesbian, so I have a girlfriend so no chance of pregnancy. But the last time I had my period was at the end of April and it is already July! I know that I am definitely not pregnant, but I do nott know how this could be happening. In your case, you are totally okay. it is normal to miss a period.
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I'm 14 I had sex in april 11-2016
My period is about to be 2 months late
I took 2 pregnancy  test  both negative
Idk what to do
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I am 13 years old and my period is late never had any sexual contacts with anybody but All of u dont worry its normal I read this thing on the internet about periods its normal my friend had it just calm and dont be stressed enjoy the days without your period !! So dont  worry and chill it's natural :))
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