HELP PLEASE! Missed periods, still a virgin, 14 years old...what's going on?

[Chelseacarroll]

Okay, well I'm a 14 year old girl and I missed my last period. It worried me alot even though I've never had sex. Now, my period is really late and I'm really scared and stressed. I've had a boyfriend for 3 months and I really love him, but I DO NOT let him do anything that I'm not ready for. So I'm still a virgin, and I don't plan on that changing any time soon, but anyway, I don't know what's going on. I'm afraid to tell him or my mom, because I know my mom will immediately start accusing me of being I ginormous ***** and destroying my purity WHICH I HAVEN'T DONE. The most I've done is wrapped my legs around his waist while we were in a pool. In swimsuits. So I don't think anything could've happened there...but anyway, I really need some help here. I'm scared beyond words, you guys. Please answer as soon as possible. Thank you.
UPDATE
Alright, well I took a pregnancy test today to see if I'm pregnant because I missed my period last month and I should've started yesterday but I haven't. I'm 14 and a virgin, but I've been showing some signs of pregnancy and I'm very, very scared and paranoid. I just wanted to be sure. I took one today and it said it was negative. It recommended to take it in the morning I think, but it was around 10:00 or 11:00 pm. It's been around a month since my last period should've started. I've been eating a lot less lately and I've been very stressed. I woke up with a headache yesterday and last month my stomach was cramping like period cramps. My breasts might've grown a little bit but they're not sore at all. I've been looking kinda bloated lately, but it might just be me. I know I haven't had sex, but vaginas are weird and complicated, y'know? The most "sexual" thing I ever did with my boyfriend was wrap my legs around his waist in a pool while he carried me around. In our swimsuits. And I'm PRETTY SURE he didn't ***...because we weren't really doing anything besides kissing and floating around at a waterpark. I would've known? Right? I dunno, I guess there's a lot that I still don't know. But like I said, it's been around a month and I took my pregnancy test today. I didn't really have to pee so it took a while and I was rushed to try to force it out, which is pretty impossible to do when you're peeing. I touched the absorbent part of the test for less than a second before I used it. Would this change the result? Is there anything else I should do? I feel like I'm going to miss this period as well. Should I go to a doctor? What are the odds of a false negative? BECAUSE I REALLY NEED TO KNOW. It's stressing me out so much and I'm so scared.
PS: sorry if its too much information, but I have masturbated (well not really, just feeling around) before, and I don't think my hymen could've broke, but that was a while ago.
PPS: when I missed my period the first time,I put a tampon in just to be sure, and when I took it out, it had a little light brown/pinkish stuff on it, but then that was it. I felt sick today, but I think it was just from the nerves when I told my mom...because she jumped to conclusions...

[vic_paras]

Update: so today I went to the bathroom and found white stuff on my underwear... Did I ovulate? Aren't I supposed to get my period and then ovulate? I'm so confused plz help

[vic_paras]

HI I'm 14 and I've had my period for a year now. I've always been regular and I've never skipped a period. Except for this month. Ever since I realized I was late, my stomach has been bothering me and I haven't had such a big appetite. I have never had any sexual interactions with anyone and I don't have a boyfriend. Although I am a virgin, the thought of being pregnant still creeps up on me and makes me really scared. Please help.

[bae24]

its ok to feel scared but take a pregnancy test or go and see a doctor and ask for their advice first

[MadamT123]

Don't worry! It is natural for a pubescent girl to not get her period regularly. It takes about a few years before it gets into a routine and even then it can become irregular. My answer is to wait it out or if it is really bothering you, tell a trusted friend or adult and ask them to take you to your local GP! They will give you suggestions on what to do. But if you are still going through puberty IT IS OK to have an irregular period. If you don't want to tell anyone just yet, you can research it online if you'd like to get more info on missed periods. Just because you haven't had a period doesn't mean you are pregnant. There are heaps of reasons as to why you could miss your period! I hope this enlightens you on your body! And please be safe not just for me but for yourself

[vic_paras]

Hi I'm 14 yrs old and I've had my period for about a year now. I'm pretty regular and I've never missed a period except for this month. Ever since I realized that I was late, my stomach has been bothering me and I haven't had that much of an appetit. I'm a virgin so I know for sure that I'm not pregnant and I don't have a boyfriend or sexually active whatsoever but I can't help but question myself. I'm really scared and if someone can help me I'd really appreciate it. Thx

[Kylieduclos]

You guys there is nothing to worry about. I went 34 days without getting my 2nd period. You get you're period when your body's cycle is ready, so it's  normal to be late.

[valerie2323]

so im 13, and im only like a week late but im still freaking out too lol. im a virgin but, im still worried. doctors say periods can come late do to stress, and you've not have your period very long so it doesn't really have an exact schedule. im worried too, but hopefully i start soon.

[ameliaxmatthews]

Hi I'm Amelia and I'm 12, I got my period about a month ago but I'm about a week late and its really bugging me - but I doubt that you're pregnant, if you are too concerned go see a doctor and try to mention the topic as little as possible to your mum if she can be that jumpy and judge mental, although I got depression from keeping my worries to myself so if it gets out of order it may be for the best; she may be a little shocked at first but as your mother she will support you no matter what. Good luck❤️