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HELP PLEASE! Missed periods, still a virgin, 14 years old...what's going on?

Okay, well I'm a 14 year old girl and I missed my last period. It worried me alot even though I've never had sex. Now, my period is really late and I'm really scared and stressed. I've had a boyfriend for 3 months and I really love him, but I DO NOT let him do anything that I'm not ready for. So I'm still a virgin, and I don't plan on that changing any time soon, but anyway, I don't know what's going on. I'm afraid to tell him or my mom, because I know my mom will immediately start accusing me of being I ginormous ***** and destroying my purity WHICH I HAVEN'T DONE. The most I've done is wrapped my legs around his waist while we were in a pool. In swimsuits. So I don't think anything could've happened there...but anyway, I really need some help here. I'm scared beyond words, you guys. Please answer as soon as possible. Thank you.
UPDATE
Alright, well I took a pregnancy test today to see if I'm pregnant because I missed my period last month and I should've started yesterday but I haven't. I'm 14 and a virgin, but I've been showing some signs of pregnancy and I'm very, very scared and paranoid. I just wanted to be sure. I took one today and it said it was negative. It recommended to take it in the morning I think, but it was around 10:00 or 11:00 pm. It's been around a month since my last period should've started. I've been eating a lot less lately and I've been very stressed. I woke up with a headache yesterday and last month my stomach was cramping like period cramps. My breasts might've grown a little bit but they're not sore at all. I've been looking kinda bloated lately, but it might just be me. I know I haven't had sex, but vaginas are weird and complicated, y'know? The most "sexual" thing I ever did with my boyfriend was wrap my legs around his waist in a pool while he carried me around. In our swimsuits. And I'm PRETTY SURE he didn't ***...because we weren't really doing anything besides kissing and floating around at a waterpark. I would've known? Right? I dunno, I guess there's a lot that I still don't know. But like I said, it's been around a month and I took my pregnancy test today. I didn't really have to pee so it took a while and I was rushed to try to force it out, which is pretty impossible to do when you're peeing. I touched the absorbent part of the test for less than a second before I used it. Would this change the result? Is there anything else I should do? I feel like I'm going to miss this period as well. Should I go to a doctor? What are the odds of a false negative? BECAUSE I REALLY NEED TO KNOW. It's stressing me out so much and I'm so scared.
PS: sorry if its too much information, but I have masturbated (well not really, just feeling around) before, and I don't think my hymen could've broke, but that was a while ago.
PPS: when I missed my period the first time,I put a tampon in just to be sure, and when I took it out, it had a little light brown/pinkish stuff on it, but then that was it. I felt sick today, but I think it was just from the nerves when I told my mom...because she jumped to conclusions...
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Well I am smart and if you had sex with your bf well then the girl that punched you in the stomach either in 2013 or 2014 he might have gotten you pregnant and that is odd for a girl like you if you are the only 1 who didn't have any more periods in 2015 but only 1 that is am serious problem that could only mean that you are absolutely gonna have a baby...
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Don't worry about it, this has happened to me it's stress keep calm and eliminate stress from ur life
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I'm 14 my first period was around 2013 in November I never had another one till a girl punched me in the stomach that was maybe 2013 or 2014 and my last period was in may 2015 in school and I haven't had one since but I've also had sex during the years of 2011-2013 and I'm 14 now and I'm worried
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Hi. Ok i am 14 i started my period of may last year and it was going fine then i missed it in September but got it again in october and November then i missed December, January, February, and so far all of march (its the 26) i have never had sex. I have been more active lately and losing weight. Please help i haven't told anyone what should i do?  Is the normal? Please tell me!
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That happen to me but I am so scared because I haven't gotten it in this month and the month is almost over and my stomach hurts a lot
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Well I haven't gotten mine this month as well probably will I'm April but hopefully not on my bday to normal if you exercise and eat a little or drink coffee a lot
I'm 13 and a virgin and my period also hasn't come since end of February. It's usually quite regular . I'm very very very worried. Though I know I shouldn't be because I'm a virgin. I'm still nervous. Please help
I'm 15 and have never had sex before. And My period is 3 weeks late and I'm starting to worry cause I have been vomiting and no acting myself and also eating alot. 5 weeks ago I had to use a boys public toilet while traveling, I am very worried cause I have a big career ahead of me. HELP PLEASE!!
You're fine. In the first three or so years your period will be on and off. Sometimes it'll be a week in between them sometimes it'll be months and months between. You're fine and have no reason to worry, but if you're extremely worried ask a doctor about it
I am 13 and im a virgin and I haven't had my period in 7 days please tell me what's wrong with me????
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i am 14 i have never had sex before and i have missed my period for 9 months now/i do not want to tell my mum she maybe thinking of something else. what should i do plssssssss
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Hi! Ok, there are so many other reasons your period could be late! And one of them is stress, and if your stressing about missing it or it being late, it it probs making it worse! And i mean if you have never had sex... your not pregnant, so do NOT worry about it! Just be calm and try to relax...
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I'm 14 and I have had a period for 2-3 years now. I'm late. I haven't gotten it at all. But when I first got my period I got it every 4 months then the end of last year and last month it was regular (every month) I am sexually active but me and my boyfriend are careful about it. My boobs are tender and I haven't ate as much as I used to. I just need to know if something is wrong and if I should be worried
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