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Hi I was drunk one night and had a massage from a random person. During the encounter she rubbed my penis with vaginal secretions. I don’t think our genitals touched.
Ten days later I think about the incident and notice my tip at times is sore and I am urinating often. No pain when I pee but sometimes I feel a sense that it is sore. Not sure if any are risk?
Ten days later I think about the incident and notice my tip at times is sore and I am urinating often. No pain when I pee but sometimes I feel a sense that it is sore. Not sure if any are risk?
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So to clarify - you think she she got vaginal secretions on her hand and that's how they got on your penis? Or did they somehow get on your penis in another way?
If it was a handjob, there's no risk here for an STI. Touching herself than touching you is not a way infections are transmitted. Also, given that you only seem to notice symptoms when you think about the encounter suggests that it's anxiety, and not an actual infection.
However, you can get an infection in your prostate without having any kind of exposure, so definitely get checked out if you are having pain and urinary frequency. Perhaps you have a UTI or a prostate infection. It might be something as simple as dehydration or irritation from too much alcohol or caffeine and not enough water, too.
If it was a handjob, there's no risk here for an STI. Touching herself than touching you is not a way infections are transmitted. Also, given that you only seem to notice symptoms when you think about the encounter suggests that it's anxiety, and not an actual infection.
However, you can get an infection in your prostate without having any kind of exposure, so definitely get checked out if you are having pain and urinary frequency. Perhaps you have a UTI or a prostate infection. It might be something as simple as dehydration or irritation from too much alcohol or caffeine and not enough water, too.
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I know there was no insertion. She was stimulating her self and used some secretin’s and rubbed me. I noticed it ten days later but I keep researching and it says I can get Chilamudoa and gin this way? I was really drunk. We may have touched genitals but it is doubtful. Yes I’ve been thinking about it. When I do, I feel a discomfort in my urethras. My tip is sore but it could be from rubbing. As o am getting a physical and they do a urine test would that indicate anything or willing need to ask for a test. I prefer not too. Maybe anxiety? Thank you so much!
I also remember it was lots of juices. I appreciate your input! Hopefully it is anxiety.
If we did touch genitalia would that change it? I don’t remember any baked humoing or sliding just lots of touching and mutual masterbation whereby vaginal fluid were exposed.
The only way to get gonorrhea and chlamydia is through insertion - either oral, vaginal, or anal.
If you get a physical, and they do a urine test, they might or might not do STI testing. That's up to the doctor. You usually need to ask for them.
I don't know why you don't want to ask for the testing - maybe you don't want them on record, or on insurance/billing/paperwork that goes to the house to a partner/spouse/parents. In any case, testing is the only way to know what's going on.
If this is because of guilt from going outside a relationship, remember that guilt doesn't equal risk.
Here are some posts from our experts (when we had them) that may help -
https://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/Nervous-about-mutual-masturbation/show/2183476
https://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/Mutual-Masturbation-STD/show/1968429
https://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/mutual-masturbation-sti/show/1858544
https://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/Understanding-the-risks-of-mutual-fingering/show/1516796
https://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV---Prevention/Vaginal-fluid-on-hand-touched-inside-of-condom-and-head-of-penis/show/1119533 - read this thread thoroughly. There is an excellent explanation about why certain activities are not risks, and why others are.
If you get a physical, and they do a urine test, they might or might not do STI testing. That's up to the doctor. You usually need to ask for them.
I don't know why you don't want to ask for the testing - maybe you don't want them on record, or on insurance/billing/paperwork that goes to the house to a partner/spouse/parents. In any case, testing is the only way to know what's going on.
If this is because of guilt from going outside a relationship, remember that guilt doesn't equal risk.
Here are some posts from our experts (when we had them) that may help -
https://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/Nervous-about-mutual-masturbation/show/2183476
https://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/Mutual-Masturbation-STD/show/1968429
https://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/mutual-masturbation-sti/show/1858544
https://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/Understanding-the-risks-of-mutual-fingering/show/1516796
https://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV---Prevention/Vaginal-fluid-on-hand-touched-inside-of-condom-and-head-of-penis/show/1119533 - read this thread thoroughly. There is an excellent explanation about why certain activities are not risks, and why others are.
Thank you! I figured when the do the screen of anything may show up for further testing? I won’t ask as I think it is anxiety and guilt. I’ve been urinating frequently and I think it is because I am constantly thinking and trying to remember the exposure. Hence when I get my physical I will tell the doc the symptoms but it is too close to home. I know there was no Insertion so maybe I need to see a clean urinalysis at my physical.
Also would std discomfort be consistent pain or intermittent ?
Also would std discomfort be consistent pain or intermittent ?
Okay, on a regular urine test, it might show if you have white blood cells, bacteria, signs of dehydration, blood, etc. It won't show what bacteria, though. It can tell you that you have an infection, but won't tell you what kind - an STI, a UTI, a prostate infection, etc.
You mentioned that you were drunk when this happened. If you've been drinking a lot - ease way up on that, and any caffeine use, and increase your water intake. Don't discount that. Alcohol and caffeine are very irritating to the bladder, and very dehydrating.
You say you need to see a clean urinalysis. Even if it shows signs of an infection or something, that doesn't mean it's an STI. Just keep that in mind.
You mentioned that you were drunk when this happened. If you've been drinking a lot - ease way up on that, and any caffeine use, and increase your water intake. Don't discount that. Alcohol and caffeine are very irritating to the bladder, and very dehydrating.
You say you need to see a clean urinalysis. Even if it shows signs of an infection or something, that doesn't mean it's an STI. Just keep that in mind.
So if I had something it would show that I have an infection. Then I would ask for additional tests?
It might. But you had no risk for an STI from this encounter. If you have something else going on - a non-bacterial issue with your prostate, irritation from alcohol, a physical issue or something along those lines, it might not show up on a urinalysis.
Just increase your water intake, get the test done, see what it says, and go from there.
Just increase your water intake, get the test done, see what it says, and go from there.
Thank you and if I had an std would the pain be intermittent or consistent? My top hurts but it may be from so much utine and anxiety?
Please remember that you had no risk for an STD from this encounter. If you had one from another encounter, the pain would be consistent.
If you are urinating that frequently, you need to see a doctor. Don't wait too long for that.
If you are urinating that frequently, you need to see a doctor. Don't wait too long for that.
Thank you very much! I appreciate your help!
You're welcome. :)
So I will see the doc soon. My symptoms continue to be soreness in the urethra and tip after urinating. You think this would be more of a prostate issue? If it was a uti would the pain be consistent or the scenario?
Honestly, I think it's probably anxiety, but I can't say that for sure, and only a doctor can tell you that.
I don't know why you aren't seeing a doctor. Anything I tell you is speculation. You need a doctor.
I don't know why you aren't seeing a doctor. Anything I tell you is speculation. You need a doctor.
This forum is only for STD questions, and our forums members have answered your questions to the best of their ability, and to the extent that ANY online forum can assist. For further examination and diagnosis, see your doctor.
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