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Sexual abuse/ Adult Incest/ Mental Retardation

I started dating a guy that has slight mental retardation, inrealize he and his father are very discreet sneaking around at night high on a sex drug, crystal Meth., one night i was suppose to be asleep and i couldnt so i laid on the ground i saw his dad feet come out of the bathroom i also heard moaning sounds; when i asked my mate about this he said his dad wasnt in the bathroom, and he was gone to work!
At night many times my mate has night mares, flipping and screaming in his sleep. Ive told him about it/asked he made an excuse i have met allot of ppl with this issues of being survivors of sexual abuse this is far the worse.
My mate begs me not to leave.
He has severe issues of self worth, high depression and paranoia issues, the home is His grandparents who also live here, this is scary i dont know what to do or who to talk too over this issues....
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3191940 tn?1447268717
I'm going to be blunt and direct with you:  Get out of there ASAP, today if possible.  There is nothing about the situation you describe that is normal or healthy.  With the drugs and the potential abuse and incest happening, it is only a matter of time before something very bad happens.  If the authorities are alerted to illegal activities in the home, you could be implicated in any crimes.

This relationship is not redeemable.  Get out FAST.
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