i dont fhink its rape however feel it was not cool to have sex with u that drunk... on the hand you need to be more cautious and also not over indulging in alchole till the point u pass out!
katkat, you don't know what happened that night - you might have passed out later, or at the end and he may not have noticed.
It is scary that you can't remember your evening - maybe a warning to you to moderate your drinking so you're in control in the future.
I agree with melipops. And would like to add that even if you do consider him a good and trusted freind, he is NOT if he chose to have sex with you without your SOBER CONSENT. This is very important: consent does not count if given under the influence of drugs or alcohol. Some men do not know this, or don't care. What if he does this to someone else? What if he gave you an STD? Please think hard about this. I know you will do the right thing... just remember that doing the right thing doesn't always feel good. - Blu
Hi, i think it is a hard moral one because you do have sex with him periodically but technically it is rape because you didn't consent to sex. You need to ask him what happened so you can be clear as to what happened. After you have spoken to him I suggest you think hard about what you want to do. Is this guy a friend and do you trust him? He shouldn't assume that you would have sex and when it comes down to it i think because you can't remember and you did.t consent it is definately non consensual sex. Good luck with this