Thank you for responding,, i got a few laughs out of yours flmagi.. i will try to get him on here and hopefully understand,,, he understands to a point because he has battled a pot addiction for about 8 years,, but the withdrawl is nothing like this...
Do like flmagi said and just tell him no. Also, remind your husband that you are doing this for the both of you. I tell my husband everything said on this forum, so he has a better understanding. He also makes sure I do my exercises and take my amino acids and follow the Thomas Recipe and is making me eat brown rice for the love of God. If you can maybe get him involved in your recovery process, maybe he will understand it better. Talk to him. Tell him everything you are feeling. Cry.
You've got us, sweetie. And remember, just say no. You're husband will get over it.
I went threw something similar with my husband. You are just going to have to say "no". You must come first during this. Concentrate on you and only you.
I know it is about impossible for some one who hasn't gone threw this to understand, so just tell him, that you are going to be so incapable of functioning for the next week, that he'll be lucky if you don't poop in the bed.(and don't be surprised if you do). You are going to be very, very sick. He needs to help you threw this and if he can't, maybe he can go stay at a relatives house for 4 or 5 days. (lol I kicked my hubby out).
Can you get him to come on the forum and read some stuff?
Good luck to you and keep posting.