Leaving Husband update

[troubleinohio]

i wrote a short journal last night saying I was leaving the husband last night...i packed the kids up and got a few clothes and such we would need, got them into the car, it was raining out, late, they were cranky to be up so late still - but i wanted to get out of the house because of things escalating here with husband...well after all of that, the ####### car wouldnt start!! I couldnt believe it! It was like a dammn horror movie or something.  So we are still here at home. the husband agrees that things seem to be over for us and he says that he will go instead. Im not sure what to make of this and if he really means it, if he will stick to that, I dont know. He did go last night. Dont know where but he's gone. If he sticks to this, I would happy to be able to stay here with the kids. I'll keep you guys updated  

[CadillacJack]

So sorry about your domestic trouble. All you can do is what you think is best. So continue to do what you believe is best, and good luck to you.

[bmc1976]

Just to ease your mind on the tonsilitis surgery if and when it comes to that. My son is now 7 and he had his out when he was 3. We went in for the surgery in the morning. By late afternoon he was done and we were on our way home. He saw Mcdonald's and wanted to stop. He was eating a chicken nugget happy meal 6 hours after surgery! The doctor said before we left to let him eat whatever he wanted. It didn't have to be just soft foods. Kids are better than us handling pain. He was sore but it was not nearly as bad for him as it was for us!
I know you have had a lot of stress lately. Just want to let you know you are in my thoughts and prayers! By the way, I'm ready for some more stories!! You still have my email address don't you??!!!
Brian

[swtbreezie]

Hi I hope things get better for you.  I will keep you in my prayers.  I know I haven't been around much.  My life is not going to well either.  The good thing is I am still clean.  Take care of you and those babys.  It is only right that he let you and the kids stay.  It's easier for him to find a place than you with the children.
big hugzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz to you sending you lots of luv
swtbreezie

[PromisedLand]

When my first wife and I reached this point, there was no question in my mind that it was me who should leave..I was not about to force my kids and their mother out of their house.  I'm glad you're all still in your home

Jim

[road2recovery]

That car did not start for a reason!!  I always beleive things go a certain way...Because you and your boys need to stay at home...The place they call "home"...I am praying that things get better for you as i beleive your trigger has left...Now start working on "YOU"
hugs
r2r

[PromisedLand]

Can't help much TIO other than to say you're in my thoughts and prayers as are your kids..It's terrible when things reach this point, but perhaps now you can start moving forward.

God Bless..


Jim

[jessejames31]

just wanted to tell you that i'm so proud of you! i know how hard it is to make that decision seeing my mom not make it. your gonna be okay, and i'm here for you if you need to talk..  -jessejames

[troubleinohio]

thanks you guys.......SLK- my oldest son seems to be doing ok despite the tonsilitis. He never had a fever or anything, was pretty much asymptomatic- just difficulty eating sometimes (makes him choke because they are kinda in the way being enlarged like that). So far he still does that but not quite as often. he has about 2 days left on the antibiotics. As for the insurance- I am going down there this week to see if we qualify. I pray that they approve us, we need it so bad.  

[slk714]

God thats so tough when you get up the strength to make a step forward, only for everything to work against you, i am so sorry, that must have been devastating. but, good, i think, it will be alot easier if you can stay and he goes. you wont believe how much happier life is when you arent living with someone who brings you down, i am not casting judgement on him, i  am just commenting on what i have read. so i hope this is a new start for you.

now, check into that insurance for you and those kids, you will feel so much better to not worry about that anymore. and if he is gone you will have no problem at all getting covered..BTW..hows your boy doing with the tonsilitis????

hang in there, and keep posting, we are here for you :)

[gizzy32]

do you ever catch a break? well the good news is at least your home with the kids and he's not there. if it's truly over, then you can get on with your life and no longer have to live in constant fear. you deserve to be happy and i pray this all works out for you and your children. it's time for you to be selfish and take care of you.

[lostdreams]

Well done for making that decision! I am soo sorry for what you are going through, you are in my thoughts and prayers!! When we come to realize we have to move on with our lives, it is a tough decision, and sometimes it hurts so bad. You have done well in recognizing this and trying to improve your situation, i applaud you for that. Well done.