Crack

[Travis86]

My girlfriend has been doing bad drugs since she was 12.  She has been clean off crack cocaine since september, and is now having some big problems keeping her mind off it.  The past two times i helped her through her struggle, but i am not going to be there for her 24 hours a day.  I cant handle it anymore, its really painful.  Any advice on what to do and how to help her through her struggle?  Email me at trav_tu-***@****. i want to keep this private.

[dominosarah]

You might want to ask her if she would be willing to try some aftercare........You have to take care of yourself  and she needs to learn how to face these struggles also....Bless your heart for being there for her..........sara

[worried878]

basically as with all drug abuse..it is she who needs to be struggling..u can struggle with her but if u r the only one participating then it is possibly fruitless....crack, cystal meth etc are very mentally hard to stop,,,physically the wd is not so bad...i feel for u tho cos in reality it is she who has to do the work...and u cant do it for er even tho it sounds as if u love her lots...everyone has a different bottom..perhaps she has not hit hers yet..but losing someone like u who obviously cares so much could be a major bottom...but everyone is different..and bottoms can be a whole lot more "loss" for some than others...she is very lucky to have u