brkn back: yes i feel VERY VIOLATED. We have known these people forever. My husband and her husband grew up on the same road and went to school together since Jr. High. He married her fairly young so they have been coming here forever. Never had a problem before with theft (although she is a scumbag- their house is filthy , the kids are neglected and they are under investiagion by CPS and Health Dept right now!) So im glad this all did come out...my husband let it be known that she is NOT allowed over here EVER again, so im relieved I dont have to deal with her anymore. (they always bring their kids over when they are deathly ill with things and spread it to us. they even came here once with the CHICKEN POX knowing full well ahead of time that none of us here have had them!!! They also have had lice many times! The list goes on and on.... So Im glad in a way this did happen because she wont be over here anymore!
Hey this could be a blessing in disguise. I have back injuries and scoliosis that i have gotten under control. but if the weather is humid and i am doing alot it will kill. i was thinking after i was clean for a couple of months that i could get a script and save it for emergencies. but now i realize that would be foolish. i do not have that luxury anymore.
And now i have had to find other ways to deal with the pain. i already tried the pain killers and look where it got me. If i cannot handle things without a pill, than i must change something.
not very comforting huh? you must be feeling violated? perhaps this girl needs some help too.
nope the husband didnt know anything. no one knew those specific pills were here but she knows in the past Ive used vicodin, and that my husband used pain pills for his back too. Their whole family were over at the house, her husband working on his truck right in front driveway by the door to the house. he said no one else was here the whole time he was here. My husband was behind the garage working on his own stuff, with the kids. I left to go to the store. The wife stayed by her husband , (and by the door to the house), told her husband she "had to use the bathroom" and was gone awhile. No one else came while i was gone. My husband stated those pills were still in the bottle just before this happened, because his back has been giving him bad problems lately, and he checked the bottle, took 1 and counted them and wrote in permanent marker right on the bottle how many were left in there. So we know for sure those pills were in there just before i left for the store and she was only one in the house while i was gone. She has been known to use pain pills in the past. She went through every bottle that was here. All my regular meds were turned bakcwards (I keep my bottles all in a line, facing outwards to read lables for all my asthma, depression meds etc. ) Everyone of them was messed up, and the lid was left off of one of my husbnds bottles which he NEVER does (we figure she was in this bottle when she heard her husband outside or something and rushed to get out of the cupboard fast and in her haste didnt close the lid.
Did your husband tell her husband that he had them? do you think that maybe it was the husband in on it also? Im just throwing it all out there. Something doesnt seem right with this one. Was anyone else in the house?
just a tiny update on this: the husband came back last night and said she denied it. He doesnt believe her though, the evidence is too compelling , its obvious to all she is the one who stole them. THis makes me so mad. All those years I was addicted, i never ever walked into anyones house and stole a single pill or anything else for that matter and to have this happen to me! ugh!
I dont know your whole story but im so sorry that happened to you . I would follow up and find out , and needless to say she wouldnt be back in my house again. I hope that you get to the bottom of this and im so sorry that you could have to hurt because of her stupidity.
I was thinking on a different line. Is is possible the hubby knew your hubby was holding them for you and mentioned it? If so, that could be how she knew you had them. I remember when I was an addict, I listened to everything everyone had to say about going to the doctor, etc. Surely her hubby wasn't in on it and that's why you haven't heard from them.
Sorry to be so negative and suspicious, but I remember how I was and judge everyone on that level. I know it is wrong, and I shouldn't do that, but once an addict, you always think like one.
Good luck and I hope things work out.
S
I missed you, sorry you went through this, at least her husband knows about it.. take care and talk soon
Karen
Good to hear from you. what a mess. I hope that lady learns to regret this.