my question is not about the drugs (hydrocodone), or the withdrawls. i was doing a pretty good job of hiding my addiction, or so i thought, from everyone in my life. all the pills were aquired from the street. i have wanted, like most of us, to get off of them for a while now, but i knew it would take me getting flat out caught for anything to change. a week ago, my girlfriend, who is the mother of my child, found my stash. as much as part of me was upset, the biggest part of me was actually relieved. this is the best way to kickstart my sobriety. my problem now is that i don't have any understanding from her. instead of being there to help me, she is becoming more of a probation officer than a confidant. i don't expect her to trust me in the least, i know i wouldn't if the roles were reversed, but does anyone have any advise as to how i can work on getting better all the while being reminded of how unfair this is for her. she thinks i don't know, like i haven't thought a billion times how she deserves someone much better than me. when there is no trust, what else is there?