help me

[beanie34]

i had a alcohol induce arguement with my girlfriend and threw her in the snow and kicked snow on her. then broke her car mirror. we no longer go out together. i have been sober for 10 weeks and go to 3-4 AA meetings a week, will she come back to me?

[Kresaera]

The book is an awesome read! I'm going to ask ibizan's friend if I can borrow it after the group is finished with it. I've found great solace in reading about addiction and recovery. It brings back my desire to be a psychologist. Anyway, enough about me.

I'm sorry that you're feeling rough also. There are many days that you wouldn't mind if they passed on without you in them. I'm also glad you've got a sponsor, a great support group and all of us here to help you through this. As the ex girlfriend of an alcoholic, I can understand where your gf is coming from. My sons father is an alcoholic (he won't admit it) and I spent many nights scared for myself and my son. That was before I had an addiction problem myself so I didn't understand at all. I wondered why he didn't just stop and gave home chance after chance. You, unlike him, have taken that step to sobriety and she will see that. It may take a while, you may not be a couple ever again, but you may just end up friends.

Take care and congrats on 12 weeks.

[ibizan]

I found myself in the book.....i laughed at myself back then and also today...and my group members love it!We have been taking a chapter a week...all 2-3 wonderful short simple pages and having a discussion on it!U will find comfort....and hope in Georgia's book!and 2 my friend Sarah-this book is a MUST have...... and an easy read!:)

[beanie34]

Thanks ibizan. I am going to get the book this weekend. I appreciate the recommendation.

[beanie34]

Thanks ibizan. I am going to get the book this weekend. I appreciate the recommendation.

[beanie34]

I hop everything is good with you, i appreciate  that you take time and respond to me. You've neen a big help. Have a great weekend!!

[beanie34]

Thanks Minn