I just debated taking an ambien tonight, but after laying there for 3 hours worrying about how I was ever going to make it to work tomorrow, I took 10 mg. My doc gave me these about 3 months ago, as I work the third shift 2-3 nights a week and it's impossible to sleep in the afternoon with all my kiddos home! It really helped for the first month, then by the second month I would wake up after 3-4 hours, and just doze the rest of the night. I'm also starting to have pretty major headaches the next day, sometimes, within 5 minutes of getting out of bed. And YES with the memory thing....feel like an idiot when I cant put sentences together during convos with my own kids!!! I i didn't know ambien could do that, and I'm very worried. So....can I just go off it cold turkey? Are there any alternatives that are actually safe?