HIV anxiiety? or fear? help anyone

[Tek1]

i had unprotected sex with an ex gf in june before then my last blood test was in april everything was fine, she went and got tested as well and came out negative as well. we both parted ways and i recently started dating a girl who i see a future with, we had unprotected sex she showed me her papers everything is negative and went and got tested again, and negative again. i went and got test last Thursday 11-5-09, everything came back negative. i dont use drugs, i dont sleep around i only had 2 sexual partners in the last 7 months, even with the negative test results why am i freaking out? is it ocd?

[Tek1]

no i havent both these girls, were gf's of mine. i can calm down now and relax a little bit more thanks. its probably a phobia of mine that i have to control, its only normal to worry but i am still with the girl and we're going strong. thanks for the help people

[bosnianworrier]

It could be HIV phobia.

Negative results after 3 months are final. Why are you having unprotected sex?

[cj29]

Anxiety can come in all forms.  We often see many people here in the forum that have HIV fears.  Health anxiety can be very difficult to deal with in my opinion.  I would have to agree with silverberg here because you can't get HIV from someone that doesn't have it...if you could you would be the first.  Second, it is not very easy to contract in the first place, but if you sleep around ensure you are protecting yourself.  Have you had anxiety in the past?

[silverberg]

first off you had unprotected sex with 2 girls , one your GF? why worry, was you both faithful? as for the second girl, she can show you any paper or blood results, that means nother, unless you are with her 24/7 I would not, use someones word or and blood work they give you. PERIOD! you need to educate yourself on HIV and then your anxiety may pass. you made a mistake by having unprotected sex, learn from it. have a good day.