Thank you nursegirl. I am actually doing that. I am seeing a counselor and will be on medication soon. It just isn't very fun in the meantime. :(
You are exhibiting severe anxiety and obsessive like thoughts related to this, which is common after an HIV scare/concern.
Your best bet is to address the anxiety with a professional. Obviously, tests aren't making you feel better, you already have several negatives, plus the reassuring words of HIV experts, and that was not enough to quell the anxiety.
Make yourself an appt with your doc and ask for a referral to a mental health provider.
And now my brain just doubts it all. What if the lady told me I was positive and I forgot? What if she accidently filled out the wrong paper saying I was negative...it has to stop. I told my bf everything about this situation and he said I m fine and to stop worrying.....
Ok, sorry. I wasn't finished. I even went so far as to talk to the guy I had sex with yesterday. I haven't talked to the guy in three months. He assured me he is clean, but wasn't receptive to taking a test for me. People would tell me that it doesn't matter what his status is....it matters what mine is. I am just having so much anxiety over this. I don't know what to do :(