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Ladies-I need some advice

Okay, so i'm a pretty good-looking guy... i'm now a senior in high school, and i've only hooked up with two girls. It pisses me off how all of my friends are getting all these girls and have girlfriends, and i have no one. My anxiety gets in the way of me talking with other girls cuz i'm always to confront and talk with a girl, and if i am talking with a girl i am always afraid that she is seeing my flaws. i don't know what to do i just feel so ******* alone.
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Hey mate, I feel exactly the same! Most of my friends have girlfriends, and we all have our flaws. You'll get one some time too, don't worry too muc about it.
The best way to get a girlfriend, is to have self esteem, believe in yourself and don't think bad thoughts. Be happy and outgoing, you can genuinely do it, I know.

Sincerely :)
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979428 tn?1253399601
Ok, I know it ***** to be the "only one alone".  Work on being ok with YOU.  No pressure to have a girl or girlfriend, working on yourself to be a confident young man.  Show the world this year you are that confident young man.  The girls like a boy who knows who he is and what he wants.  
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dont let girls seeing your flaws freak you out!!! NOBODY IS PERFECT. not even me lol!!! but seriously you just need to not worry about if they are looking at your flws, just be yourself and let them see who you really are. if you are open and honest and they truly like the person you are inside, your flaws wont matter. trust me i know!!! hahaha. good luck and enjoy your senior year.
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