I first have to admit I have not been taking care of myself. I buried my brother-in-law yesterday, and 2 years ago I buried my husband of 25 years. I have not been myself since then. For my kids sake i go through the routine of getting up and cooking and caring for them. I have not had a good nights sleep in a little over 2 years. So i admit this may be part of the problem, (depression, smoking, at least a six pack a week and not drinking because i like it but because I am numb. Friday around 8:00 pm my nose started bleeding (continuously) did not stop until 2:00 Saturday evening. The whole time it was bleeding i blew my nose every 5 minutes or so with big blood clots each time. When the bleeding finally stopped around 2: Saturday evening I have had numbness on the right side of my lip, like I've been to the dentist, a little light-headed. I go the doctor tomorrow so I can find out what's going on, and i know the first thing he is going to do is yell at me for not taking my high blood pressure pills. I know I am supposed to be taking it (of course!) but I now realized while i have not been taking care of myself, i have in essence not been taking care of my kids by making sure I am still around to take care of them. I guess I just wanted to get that off my chest. Maybe this is not the site for this mixed message, but sometimes its harder for those who know better to give advice to self. So since that is about health, i guess i just want to say that emotional health is important for the mind, body, and spirit. You have to know when it's time to move on with living and tuck some things away, and take them out and look at them in a more productive way and remember them with a smile instead of sadness and tears (not that there is anything wrong with tears!!) thanks for listening.