Thank you so much for the replies and the info, it really helps during this tough time. I took my first Lexapro today and so far I just feel really out of it and foggy. I hope those feelings go away eventually. I'm gonna try to push through the side effects cause I know I need some kind of treatment. I just feel a little out-of-sorts and spacey right now.
Hi there. Yes, agree that it is generally around 6 weeks. The best thing to do is to give it a fair trial to see if it can help you. There are 'start up' side effects that may happen but they peter out as the drug gets into your system and the 'start up' side effects are usually gone by 6 weeks. I'm glad you are thinking in terms of long term as so often that is how anxiety needs to be treated. Benzos are not good for that and you are wise to see that. Agree that tapering up is helpful and imperative when tapering down. I think all ssri's are decent in the class and whatever you and your doctor decide is best for you will be a good place to start. Anecdotal stories of what worked for one person or not another or things of that nature are good to know but keep in mind that everyone is different and what works/doesn't work for one person may not be the case for you. So, work with your doctor on this. I don't feel a psychiatrist has to diagnose you or be the one to prescribe your medicine. These days, a general practitioner can do this. They have all the tools to assess someone in terms of questionnaires and criteria for diagnosing and treating.
Therapy is a good thing to do as well. The best outcome is that in which therapy and medication are both done. Talking to someone about the anxiety and strategies that are non medicinal are important to have. Even simple things like exercising regularly and getting enough rest help with anxiety.
Lots of luck to you and let us know how it goes. .
Thank you for the reply. I saw my doctor today and she wants to start me on a SSRI. She told me it can increase your anxiety at first and make you have worse thoughts in the beginning. This is so scary to me, ugh.
General rule is 4-6 weeks, but agree with above answer in my own experience -- they work when they work or they don't work at all depending on the person and how well you metabolize the drug. Also agree that if this is new for you, rushing to go on meds might not be the best course of action. If therapy with someone who specializes in anxiety treatment works, you're done. With meds, they can help with symptoms, but you'll still have to give therapy a try if you ever want to stop taking them. Also, if you do go on any med, remember that side effects can begin long before the positive effects kick in, so you do need to give it time.
Minimum 3 weeks if you get a good one that works well with your brain but 8 weeks total for any one to give maximum effect. See what your doc says, but if you haven't even tried benzos yet that might be the place she will start you to see if you can benefit from short term breaks.
Is there any issue that is bothering you that is causing the unrest? If so, have you tried any self help techniques or therapy?