I will only say that mine is an extreme case and not widely experienced. Mine was with Paxil, and I didn't stop cold turkey, I was weaned by a psychiatrist over a six week period, but for me it was obviously too fast. Because nobody had ever told me about withdrawal including my psychiatrist, when I broke down emotionally, with problems I never had in the first place, I had no idea what was going on. My psychiatrist came up with these exotic theories and offered new drugs. I finally learned what was happening on the internet, but it's three years later and I've never recovered. There are other stories like this on the net. Probably won't happen to you, but he reason you wean is, why risk it? Also, why suffer all you're suffering if you don't have to? Whey give your brain more bad conditioning? And there's no guarantee it's going to go away quickly, it could last for months, if you're unlucky. A slow taper is best because it just feels better, but honestly, many people just go back on the drug because they can't stand the withdrawal even with a slow taper.
Final analysis, you're the only you there is. You won't die from this. The question is, how much are you willing to suffer? Some people quit these and it's a piece of cake, for others it's like the end of the world. Only you can determine that. If you can stand it, in the majority of cases it will go away in a few weeks, unless you end up in that bad category like I did. So no, it's not that it's necessarily dangerous like cold quitting benzos, it's just really unpleasant and sometimes way more than that.
Hope you have a good outcome whatever you do. If you go on withdrawal websites, you'll get more pertinent stories about what people have gone through and how hard it is for some people. From your post, you seem pretty strong. Effexor just happens to be the worst one to withdraw from, with Paxil second.
I tried coming off effexor cold turkey. 75mg after 4 years of taking this. The 7th day I ended up in the hospital diagnosed with Bells Palsy. They did tests to see what caused it nothing came back. The only thing I did different was stop taking my effexor. Where Bells is related to your nerves I am quite certain this was the cause. My body shut down. I had headaches and dizziness and a sick feeling the first 6 days. Needless to say i went home and started my effexor again.
The kicker here is I didnt want to stop taking it cold turkey, MY DOCTOR... said too and that I would be fine. I had doubts cause I have missed a dose and felt sick.
So someday I would like to be off of this drug but it does help me also. So I am stuck with a what to do.
Well one thing I do not want to do is end up in the hospital again with bells palsy. And that was 3 weeks ago and I am still having headaches that they do not know the cause of.
Also my doctor put me on Lexapro. Which I stopped taking, this drug made me feel high and as if I was not even there. I did not like it at all.
I am feeling more like myself back on the effexor but I think I still need to increase the dose because my anxiety is very unstable still.