I reallly cant' believe i just did that!! Got the tooth pulled, went in knowing i could leave whenever i wanted, this place does the spa treatment, rubbed my feet, warm lavender pillow, I really did not think i would do it. They were amazed at how calm i was better than most without anxiety issues!!! I knew the angst for days would eat me up and be worse than the event itself. Just kept repeating to face the fear and do it anyway fear is not my master.]Even wrote a note to it, So Erin, Alison , we are doing this!!!
Dear fear, thank you for being there when i need you, your chemicals and energy can be useful if I am in true danger. But here is the deal, I am not your playground. You seem to think you can surface whenever you choose and mess up my life. I will let you know when i need you, otherwise you will hang out with sadness, dispair and my other emotions. You are not longer King, got it!!! I know you will try to force your way back to front and center but just know i am getting your number. I CHOOSE what is truly dangerous, I can see you for the bully but just know I am powerful, I am strong, I free myself by seeing you for what you are. I will let anger squash you like a bug and i will let peace override you. Change is in MY control.