My dh started taking Paxil for anxiety in mid december. He is now completely different, in the last week he has been depressed, sleeping all day, asking for a divorce, saying he feels trapped, giving up on graduate school which he only has to complete his thesis to finish etc. Now nothing has changed with me but he just says he is sick of me. Could this be the meds? A bad effect of the meds? Or do you think it could all just stem from him wanting out of our 5 year marriage? I know it is hard for you to tell this but can meds make you act like this?