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[jawzlyn]

Hi i would like to be put on the pill. but sadly my mom thinks it is a really bad idea. but to me i think it's safer. and so i guess my question is if i have to have my parents consent to get put on the pill?

[Annagg599]

You cannot get it if your too young and the doctor needs the parents permisson first.

[Lucey12]

What parent in their right mind would think its a bad idea. Ok so you could be too young (I dont know if you are personally) but the point is if you are or could be having sex, better safe than sorry. Do parents of young girls really think no pill will stop them from having sex? It will just mean the chance of STDs will be higher and teenage pregnancy. If you think you will need it, then get it.

[Annagg599]

The only way you will know is if you ask. I do it to my husband alot. You have to ask Tom what is it that I do that needs to be changed? what do I do that annoys you? Tell hime to be honest and that the truth will not hurt your feelings it will only make you be a better person. well im glad you arent going to cheet on him. You need to sit down with him or get him to write it down. dont question him about it, just do it. dont start an arguement because it wont help. you have to write it all down too(the things about him)


Errika is only doing that for attention. Dont give it to her. Giving a person what they want will only make them think they are stronger ignoring them and doing things to make then upset or bothered by you will only make them weaker. She prob thinks you are scared of her and wont do anything about it and is going to keep on and keep on. She is just doing it for kicks.

[jawzlyn]

I dont let tom see me with alex, i only talk to him in english history and math class and if i see him outside. i have already lost tom 2 and i dont think i can bare to lose him again. i cant bare to lsoe him again i thinki would just go way sad. how do i show my affection to tom more? i mean i already kiss him alot and make him hugg me alto adn idk if he tried of me or what. it's hard to beleive what he says sometimes. tom acts like he is annoyed by me but says he isnt and i dont know waht to do. i love tom so much, i can not CHEAT i dont have the guts to. and either does he so taht i dont have to worri about. i will takl to errika but i am not going to pretened we are fine. errika is talking to me and laughing in front of people. but she will send me messages that are rude.

[Annagg599]

I know what you mean. my family is the same way. no one understands.well is the only reason your attracted to him is because of whats on the outside? What about the inside? how is di different then the guy you are dating. If you really love Tom, you should let other guys show you affection too. It gets confusing and you'll end up cheating on Tom and hurting him. After High school I came to realize that those guys I dated were nothing but looks. all I saw was what was on the outside and didnt pay any attention to the inside. I dated a guy that I like, we had everything in common I like him alot but one day I sheated on him with my ex and I have not heard from him again. I broke his heart and mine at the same time. It was horriable. I never cheated on anyone again. Guys are going to show you affection and flirt with you alot but you need to set bounderies. If you love Tom and you dont want to see him leave, then dont let anyone try to do that. They might not be meaning to do it but it happends. Dont let Tom see you and alex together. If he thinks you are cheating then he will do it too. Believe me, you dont want to be cheated on. It hurts so bad.......You know, Karma is true. ......I cheated on a guy with my ex, started dating my ex again, then he cheated on me. Dont let anyone tell you different, what you do to others is going to be dont right back to you....you can do something to someone and then it might take days,months,year before it happens to you.

If she wants to talk to you, dont let her in fully. She doesnt seem like a good person. Dont ever let anyone treat you bad. If someone starts to treat you bad, get rid of them because it will get worse.
I dated someone who hid things from me, not items, but info and I didnt find out the truth till I left him. He was talking to other girls behind my back and he was mean to me and would call me names but I thought he was joking, but he would act like a kid at times and the a hissy fit, I thought he was joking but he was so so so mean. my friends didnt believe me untill we broke up and they were hanging out with him more.

But n/e ways just watch her, dont fully trust her yet, see if she has change emotionall and mentally. how is she acting towards you now?

[jawzlyn]

well i just gave up on him. i have tried to going back to believing in god but he has only taken away people i cared for. everyone thinks i am jsut being dramatic. but im not, when i express how i feel to my mom all she does is say please joscelyn that is not ture. it might not be true but it feels like it. and then when i try to explain she starts to yell and that gets me pisted so i yell. me and parents dont get along to well. when i get home i go do the dishes take out the dog then go to my room. unless we have company and then i come downstaris to entertain my cousins or tom is over.  i do belieive that there is a heavan but there is no god. i'm sorry. i do make myself happy. i like to write poems or draw pictures and listen to my music. i love to bowl so i bowl for 3 diffrent leagues. i stopped trying to impress people last year. when people started to talk crap on me. the only person i really try to impress are my super super crushes. i know that sounds wrong since i am dating tom. errika also says that i am a person who has drama fallow me everywhere i am. but really that is more her than me. i have had only a few dramas and she has had more than 20. okay i ahve a question? is it wrong okay. there is this kid alex i think he is cute but thats it. and i like him to mess with me. like flirt smile make me laugh or kinda rubb my back. when tom is not around and alex is in almost al my classes. i think i just need a guys affection on me. is it wrong?  well errika is starting to talk to me now and i am scared she is planning to like do something bad to me.