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Hi i would like to be put on the pill. but sadly my mom thinks it is a really bad idea. but to me i think it's safer. and so i guess my question is if i have to have my parents consent to get put on the pill?
I just noticed that you have a poster of paramore on you wall.Thats so cool, there my fav.
God has a plan for all of us and if the plan is for someone to go to heaven at a young age then thats what it is. no you didnt upset me, my friend that is in oklahama she is married to someone who feels the same way that you do, he stopped believing because his grandpa died. but sometimes its just there time to go. it doesnt matter what age you are. I cant wait till I go to Heaven. I know its going to be awesome. I know that Heaven is a much happier place then here. I always tell myself that being here is just temporary and that when I do die I will be in the mansion in the sky. You shouldnt stop believing just because your friends died. you should be so happy because they are in a much better place then we are. They are having the time of there lives while we are stuck here trying to live each day by day waiting for our time. but until that time I am going to praise him and thank him for all that he does for me eah day.
you have nothing to cry about. I am a really shy and sensitive person and when someone yells at me or raises there voice I will start to cry. but I have given up on tryign to get other people to make me happy and just make myself happy. I draw and paint all the time, I create things that I think is cool and makes me happy, but when someone else sees it and thinks it looks good and cool, it makes me even more happy.
you need to do things that make you happy. dont rely on other people to do it for you or try to read your mind and do it. Go out by yourself, drive around, draw, create, do things that you love, not things other people love you doing. never try to impress someone, impress yourself.
I hope you not friends with that girl Errika still. she sounds like a terriable person. never let your friends control you. if you do then your not being you, your being your friends. I would never be friends with someone who treats me like that. I wont hate them but I just wont be there best friend, maybe a "hi" or "hello" every now and then but nothing else. im not telling tou to get rid of her. just sit there and think....what does she do to make you happy, to confort you when you need it, is she really your friend or your sister? pick out the things you to have incommon and the things you dont. it make a difference.
you have nothing to cry about. I am a really shy and sensitive person and when someone yells at me or raises there voice I will start to cry. but I have given up on tryign to get other people to make me happy and just make myself happy. I draw and paint all the time, I create things that I think is cool and makes me happy, but when someone else sees it and thinks it looks good and cool, it makes me even more happy.
you need to do things that make you happy. dont rely on other people to do it for you or try to read your mind and do it. Go out by yourself, drive around, draw, create, do things that you love, not things other people love you doing. never try to impress someone, impress yourself.
I hope you not friends with that girl Errika still. she sounds like a terriable person. never let your friends control you. if you do then your not being you, your being your friends. I would never be friends with someone who treats me like that. I wont hate them but I just wont be there best friend, maybe a "hi" or "hello" every now and then but nothing else. im not telling tou to get rid of her. just sit there and think....what does she do to make you happy, to confort you when you need it, is she really your friend or your sister? pick out the things you to have incommon and the things you dont. it make a difference.
oh it's fine i like to read long things from people it makes me feel happy. i have trusted people in school and they did go tell people things i have told them. i mean there is somethings that they new where way to personal and would be wrong to tell people that. testing people is what i do a lot. but my friend errika she would lie all the time. and the weird part was that her stories didn't make any sense at all. i love errika like a sister but she bossed me around and yelled at me if i didn't do what she said. which made me so mad. and she always told me how much she hated my boyfriend (tom) and how he treats me so badly. but honestly he doesn't he makes me so happy. and they only see the **** head side of him, but that side is when we play argue for fun and we now that the other one is joking. well i do look stuff up and it only makes me go huh? i don't understand it too much, or there is to many options. and it mostly has SEE YOUR DOCTOR OR TALK TO AN ADULT. bleh bleh bleh. well i do have a few friends. but they are just in my classes that i talk to. or toms friends. god is not really to me. sorry if that makes you upset or you wanna disagree. but i stopped believing in him, when he has taken away 10 of my friends in 5 months. so i say he is not real or god would not take my loved ones away from me. sorry again if that upsets you or anything. i cut because it felt like it was the only thing that made sense. i cry because it helps me calm down and breath every once in awhile.
Im sorry its so long.
When I was in school, I had friends who I thought I could trust. I told them everything and thought they wouldnt tell anyone but found out that there is no such thing as a secret. Those friends would go around school and tell anyone. Also, when I thought I had a best friend I could tell stuff to but when we had an arguement or a little spat, she would seek revenge and tell people my secrets. I had friends who turned there backs on me just to be with there boyfriend or to hang out with the person they would liked to be there boyfriend. I had guys who I liked and when I told my friend that she would try to get with them too. If you find a friend or if you have one already, think of a trust code.
What I mean is test that person, make up something that you can do or say to your friend that will show you that you can trust that person with your feelings and secrets. you can make up something (kind of like a lie) to tell them and see if that person will go tell the world or actually keep it inside. You have to test people these days because no one can be trusted.
When I was in high school I dated guys that had grad. already and I had a friend and it was more like a school only friend. we ate lunch together and had some classes together but when school was out we didnt really hang out.
I also had a gay guy friend. He was awesome. He wasnt the type who was all about pink and girly things, he was still manly and we had alot in common and if he wasnt gay I would have dated him. but we shared everything and he didnt go and tell the world about it, he wasnt that kind of person. (he moved away and I havent talked to him in years)
What I ment about the online thing is, medical stuff and info about you. like if you have a symptom bothing you, you can go online and look it up instead of telling you parents or friend. like if your stomach hurts, look it up online and see what you can do at home to cure it. instead of going to the doctor or letting anyone one know.
I do have a friend. (im sorry I forgot to mention it) She didnt go to my school, she graduated 2 or three years before me and I met her at a party. She is the same hight as I and that is why we met. I am 4'10 and we look alike and act alike and like the same stuff but since she wasnt at my school and didnt know anyone from my school I knew I could trust her. She lives in Oklahoma now and I dont ever get to see her but we still talk. I dont tell her everything because somethings she doesnt agree with me on.
What do you mean you dont know who God is? He is the Greatest person in the universe. He helps me thru everything. He sent me my husband and got me to stop drinking and doing drug.I prayed for months for him to send me a guy who loved me for me and someone who didnt cheet one me and someone I could trust and would be my best friend and someone I could marry. and God finally did it when I stopped drinking and doing drugs and started to obey him more. one night before I met my husband (like a few weeks or so) I went out and got hammered. so messed up I drove home (and my friends let me) and was in the drive way, car still in drive, I was passed out and didnt know how I got there, my mother walked outside and woke me up crying and I felt so bad cus it was her car and she never felt that way towards me before. I couldnt look her in the eye after that. I could have been in an accident and dead but God wasnt ready for that and wanted to show me a different way, a reality check. I was hurting my family and didnt realize it. They dont show me love but they do love me. for some people they might not show it because they are shy and afraid. but my family will do anything for me and wants the best for me.
The only way bad things will happen to you is if your let them. you are the only one who controlls you. If you are feeling sad about something, write it down. when your done writing. read it out loud. then analyze it. I mean look at what you wrote and ask yourself. why? why dont I like this? how can I change this? If you have a problem you can call me and talk to me, I can help. I am a happy person, all the time now. I get up each morning and go to work but I always keep a smile on my face. I dont curse or get angry. I know that getting mad or cursing at someone or something like that will only make me look stupid and immature. and thats not what God has for me.
But I do have a question, Why did you cut yourself? why were you crying?
When I was in school, I had friends who I thought I could trust. I told them everything and thought they wouldnt tell anyone but found out that there is no such thing as a secret. Those friends would go around school and tell anyone. Also, when I thought I had a best friend I could tell stuff to but when we had an arguement or a little spat, she would seek revenge and tell people my secrets. I had friends who turned there backs on me just to be with there boyfriend or to hang out with the person they would liked to be there boyfriend. I had guys who I liked and when I told my friend that she would try to get with them too. If you find a friend or if you have one already, think of a trust code.
What I mean is test that person, make up something that you can do or say to your friend that will show you that you can trust that person with your feelings and secrets. you can make up something (kind of like a lie) to tell them and see if that person will go tell the world or actually keep it inside. You have to test people these days because no one can be trusted.
When I was in high school I dated guys that had grad. already and I had a friend and it was more like a school only friend. we ate lunch together and had some classes together but when school was out we didnt really hang out.
I also had a gay guy friend. He was awesome. He wasnt the type who was all about pink and girly things, he was still manly and we had alot in common and if he wasnt gay I would have dated him. but we shared everything and he didnt go and tell the world about it, he wasnt that kind of person. (he moved away and I havent talked to him in years)
What I ment about the online thing is, medical stuff and info about you. like if you have a symptom bothing you, you can go online and look it up instead of telling you parents or friend. like if your stomach hurts, look it up online and see what you can do at home to cure it. instead of going to the doctor or letting anyone one know.
I do have a friend. (im sorry I forgot to mention it) She didnt go to my school, she graduated 2 or three years before me and I met her at a party. She is the same hight as I and that is why we met. I am 4'10 and we look alike and act alike and like the same stuff but since she wasnt at my school and didnt know anyone from my school I knew I could trust her. She lives in Oklahoma now and I dont ever get to see her but we still talk. I dont tell her everything because somethings she doesnt agree with me on.
What do you mean you dont know who God is? He is the Greatest person in the universe. He helps me thru everything. He sent me my husband and got me to stop drinking and doing drug.I prayed for months for him to send me a guy who loved me for me and someone who didnt cheet one me and someone I could trust and would be my best friend and someone I could marry. and God finally did it when I stopped drinking and doing drugs and started to obey him more. one night before I met my husband (like a few weeks or so) I went out and got hammered. so messed up I drove home (and my friends let me) and was in the drive way, car still in drive, I was passed out and didnt know how I got there, my mother walked outside and woke me up crying and I felt so bad cus it was her car and she never felt that way towards me before. I couldnt look her in the eye after that. I could have been in an accident and dead but God wasnt ready for that and wanted to show me a different way, a reality check. I was hurting my family and didnt realize it. They dont show me love but they do love me. for some people they might not show it because they are shy and afraid. but my family will do anything for me and wants the best for me.
The only way bad things will happen to you is if your let them. you are the only one who controlls you. If you are feeling sad about something, write it down. when your done writing. read it out loud. then analyze it. I mean look at what you wrote and ask yourself. why? why dont I like this? how can I change this? If you have a problem you can call me and talk to me, I can help. I am a happy person, all the time now. I get up each morning and go to work but I always keep a smile on my face. I dont curse or get angry. I know that getting mad or cursing at someone or something like that will only make me look stupid and immature. and thats not what God has for me.
But I do have a question, Why did you cut yourself? why were you crying?
well i am only a sophomore and boyfriend is graduating this year. so when he is gone who am i going to eat lunch with talk to before and after school? i am not okay with not having ANY friends but my boyfriend. You can search for solutions online? i mean i love being around my boyfriend. he makes me happy and we laugh at stupid stuff and we so get each other. i really love him. but there is just some things i cant talk to him about. do you know what i mean? GOD? who is that? i cant handle things on my own. if i do then bad things end up happening..... i am not sure if i even know my self anymore.
Thats so cool. I really dont have any girl friend but im okay with it. my husband is my best friend and I have had friends stab me in the back over the guy i was dating. I dont need a girl friend to talk girl stuff to. If i have a girly prob i go online a find a solution. I am with my husband all the time and we laugh at each other so much. he is amazing. you dont need a girl friend to talk to. you are your best friend. you need advice, you, your own self is the only one who know's you (and God of course) but you dont need anyone to tell you something you can only know about. no one will understand but you. just keep your chin up and handle things on your own. thats what us women have to do. no one knows you but you.
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