My cat is a little over a year old. She had kittens about 4 months ago. She's been in and out of heat since then, but recently she's shown no symptoms of heat. She is very hesitant to jump, and lately, she is VERY upset. She cries when you try to lift her tail and she licks that area frequently. Last night she had her butt raised and got in the "praying position". (We thought she was in labor, because we're not sure if she's pregnant or not.) We put a sheet under her and she started pawing at it, then defecated a small amount (She seemed constipated). The area around her tail is swollen and is sensitive to touch. She has also become very aggressive to our other cat (her kitten). Please help me.