Hello all I am a very concerned father here that has a few question about my newly turned 4 year old boy with a very bad temper. First of all and the biggest thing is that he is very mean to his 2 year old sister, hits her with objects, pushes her, etc. My wife is a stay at home mom and just gets fed up with his attitude. We have tried every little type of discipline and also bringing him to a child psychiatrist. They give us things to work on and we never make any progress. I feel like I am just paying to pay for the ride! I could give the advise that some are giving parents this year and mine would be FREE!! He dont listen, is mean to mom and sister and is starting to get to the point where he dont want to listen to me anymore. I have tried all the techniques myself as in not letting his tactics get on my nerves and try to ignore him, NOT working! I just dont know what to do, the doctors dont do much for us, well really nothing at all, I get the answer many want to hear "They all act this way at this age!" WRONG! Im sorry, I am not a doctor i know, but there has to be better ways to approach this and I am just wanting to see if maybe others have recieved different advise?
Also he wakes up at 5:30 screaming waking his sister up and will not listen to go back to bed, any advice on that as well? I just feel like I as a father am not doing the right things and just want to do better! Thank you all!!