And that was why I asked you about his focus. I am also the CL on the ADHD forum here - http://www.medhelp.org/forums/ADD---ADHD/show/175
Maybe you didn't realize we had one?
Anyway, his actions are pretty typical for a child with ADHD - hence my question about focus and how he did in school last year. I still do wonder about his comments on being the cool kid, but anyway.
Hard to know where to start because I don't know how much his docs have told you about ADHD.
I think the best thing you could do right now is to buy the book, "The ADD/ ADHD Answer book," by Susan Ashley. Its about $12 on Amazon. You will find it extremely helpful.
This site will help with his school problems - http://www.additudemag.com/channel/adhd-learning-disabilities/index.html
And this site is very good for overall ideas to help you help him
If you have any questions please post here or over on the ADHD site.