why?

[gmulhern748]

i always feel ugly?
i just want to cry?
why cant  i smile?
i dont i have a dat for my formal?
why didnt the guy i spent last weekend with just blank me?
why am i me.......

[MotherOf2Blessings]

I have been there girl-- trust me. I am 24 and have 2 young kids so I have been about 20-30lbs overweight since then. I also do not have a lot of time for social interaction with being a mom of two, but luckily I am now a college student and I also work and that gives me a small boost. I can relate to how you feel though. Hang in thee and like Jennifer said, do things to boost your ego and pamper yourself. Flirt with a guy, (whether you're interested or not), go to the salon, play a physical game you're good at- when you will you'll feel terrific. :) And everyone will see the confidence in you grow, thus making you more attractive. Good luck to you.

[Jennifer1987]

Hi was just reading your post and I see a lot of me in it... Mainly because I had a bad experience with my ex... I feel ugly, alone, and just totally desperate! I think your problem is lack of confidnece and self esteem.. It can cause all of what your experiencing! The fact that you "feel" ugly comes form within, its YOU saying that not anyone else! The past year for me has been he!!, You know, when someone does something to hurt you, it can have a very hard knock on effect for the rest of your life!  

A lot of people say beauty comes from within, its our personality, out attitudes and our affection towards others! Dont let the fact that you dont have a date ruin your debs... Its your night enjoy it with friends....

Start to go out with friends, go get your hair or nails done, pamper yourself. Something that will make you feel better about yourself! Look at yourself in the mirror and say " I am beautiful, I am Beautiful" over and over again! cause if you dont believe it, you wont get better and be happy! I have struggled with, the "Im so ugly and fat and stupid" sayings a lot and still do! Thing is Im going out with friends, joined a gaelic football team and just making changes to "me"... I know Im not the prittest girl in the room but Im trying to be happier about myself.... Its your life, make it a good one!!!

If you ever need to talk Im here.

best of luck

Jen x