I don't know much about hair removal in that area- however, I think it's good to remember that everyone is unique- those features anywhere on your body, that you are self conscious about, are just parts of what makes you- you, and you shouldn't need to change who you are to impress someone. That said, personal grooming preferences are ok to work out too. It's possible a doctor might have some more permanent solutions- laser hair removal or something- I'm not sure if that is a safe area for them to do that in, but if it's important, it doesn't hurt to ask.