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There was no topic for this. My boyfriend and I don't have much sex . He has a problem with ejaculating. He can' t climax.
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Well, if he gets erect, then it seems as though he is turned on. I just get the idea that maybe his sensation is a little awry...that he has a hard time getting to his climax because he isn't feeling that magical feeling...and you hit a nail on the head here. Back surgery can cause nerve damage, and this can be the reason for his lack of sensation. I think that maybe he should talk to his doctor. I don't think that this is anything you or him have anything to do with. I would try some of the suggestions regarding other areas of stimulation.
Neurophysicean can identify the nerve which is less active and can suggest its activation method.
he doesn't masterbate, he wacthes pron but he dont get hard while wacthing. he told me he had a back surgery.
Massage his perinium( muscle between anus and scrotum). You can massage before intercourse or during intercourse or after intercourse. Try any way convinient to you both.Stimulating anus with lubricated finger can also enhance sexua pleasure to some one .
Can he climax when he masturbates? Or if he watches porn? Or if he is stimulated in some other way? Maybe it is something that you need to talk about. Maybe you need to tell him that you love him and love to make him feel good and that you want to do to him whatever makes him feel good. There are some women who have a very hard time reaching climax just with regular intercourse. Sometimes they need some other stimulation or to use a vibrator at the same time. Don't make him feel bad or anything. And make sure he knows how much you enjoy sex with him and how much he turns you on. Does he have any health issues? Is he on any medication? Blood pressure meds? Antidepressants?
cant help with his climaxing but do understand what it like no having a lot of sex so if you wantto chat feel free .
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