Since he started grade school, my now 8 year old son got the habit of lying naked on the sofa to watch TV after school. Lately, I noticed his penis has grown a bit, and tends to be a bit of a reddish-brown deep colour. It is a little firm too, and I suspect he may sometimes be getting little erections. He sais it doesn't hurt though. I took a measurement with a ruler and it is about 2 and a half inches. He has no pubic hair at all and his testicles seem normal. I told him I might need to let the doctor check him but he begged me not to, because he is shy about other people seeing him naked.
My question is how developed should an 8 year old boy be, in terms of genitals and otherwise. Is this normal? My son is a caucasian, but his grandfather was latino so he is a bit tanned in complexion naturally.
Please give me some advise.