NOTHING that you have described put you at risk for contracting hiv...NOTHING ! ! !
Encounter:
1) She gave me a handjob
2) She gave me a oral sex with condom on but that only lasted for a few minutes)
3) This part have two key points.
- I was fingering her vagina at the point of time using my right finger but I didn’t went too deep into her vagina as my right finger was just touching her surface of her vagina.
- After fingering her vagina, I accidentally touched my tongue with my finger but I really can’t recap whether did I used my right finger or left finger to touch my tongue. So i assumed that if i used my left finger to touch my tongue, I would be fine but if I used my right finger, would i get into any trouble?
4) We had french kissing at that point of time too but it was not a deep french kiss and her tongue did touched my tongue a few times.
5) And the last detail which I suddenly remembered which is she was about to insert her vagina into penis with condom on but I managed to stop her in time so I assumed that vagina only touched the tip of my condom before i stopped her from going in.
6) I found out there is a tiny black mole on my glans immediately the day after the encounter and it went away after a few days.
7) she might have use the same tissue to wipe her vagina first before cleaning the sperm off my uncircumcised penis and glans and then roll the skin back to cover my glans
As you were advised in Feburary you never had an exposure.
What was your sexual encounter?