Do I have primary hiv infection?

[anaximander238]

I'm 49 years old. 18 days ago i had sex with a call girl. Being temporary single I could experience this once in a lifetime without cheating on anyone. We kissed, we had intercourse with a condom, i kissed and licked her clitoris for about 10 seconds then I went with my fingers back and forth from my mouth to her vagina to transport a bit of my saliva, carresed her vulva a bit with my hand and then she performed fellatio on me without a condom until I came. When afterwards she inquired about future possible meetings I told her that my decision was firm, this was my first and last time ever to have sex with a call girl. Then she said, after some strangely silent thought and looking a bit absent (as if in her mind she reviewed what we just did): "oh no... I'm sure we will meet again, I am inside your body now and you will never be able to get rid of me..." The phrasing was a bit odd (could she be talking about a deliberate infection!?!?; or was she just saying "men get addicted to me"?). Anyway, in the post orgasmic confusion of the moment I took no further notice of her words...

Already few days after this encouter I started to have mild upcoming pain in my throat. The pain has been increasing and has been ongoing for almost three weeks now. It feels as if I have an infection or ulcers very deep in my throat or esophagus. The part of my throat that is visible is mainly red, with very deep possibly a white patch. Gradually my throat is getting more sensitive and starts to cause nausea; I also have a decreasing apetite and feel sweaty. However I have no rash and no fever. the part of my throat deeper and closer to the chest - is swollen.

I went to my doctor a week ago, who took blood samples for STD's and throat smears for viral and bacterial cultures. The viral culture was negative. Strep and syphylis tests were negative. The results of the bacterial culture will be known tomorrow...

In the mean time I am very worried that I might be in a stage of primary hiv infection (ongoing seroconversion), which would give a horrible and cynical meaning to the words of that call girl. Should i be worried? Could it be that she, also in seroconversion after some kind of hiv incident that was known to her - was carrying a very high virus load in her vaginal fluid or mouth and that she new what was happening? It is to soon for a HIV seropos/neg test (timeframe is only 2 weeks and a half). Should I ask my doctor to give me a HIV virus load test?

[LIZZIE LOU]

sounds like a good "salesperson" to me...

you did nothing that put you at risk for hiv.  testing is not warranted.  

[anaximander238]

I'm just counting on my gut feeling that something was wrong with that girl. Although being presented on the webside of the agency as a so called luxury call girl, she was far from being one. She was confused, nervous and not very professional. She forgot the appointment, then - after a reminder by the agency - she was one hour late, she was almost eager to clutch to something or someone. She was hurt by life, it was clear she was not happy and that she had had rough times. Is it that impossible that somebody like her gets troumatised, goes crazy and wants to get revenge by deliberatly infecting clients? Thus creating also a "bond" with them? Other things she said that worried me were: "I'll soon stop working with this agency..." ; When I asked here if she was starting a business on her own or changing to another agency, she said : "... I don't know what I will do..."  If I look back on things I realize now that she really scared me...

[Teak]

Doesn't matter about her at all. You had protected sex. You didn't have a risk.

[LIZZIE LOU]

yikes!  you might want to take this to the anxiety forum because you dont have a hiv concern.

[leon8]

Hello ! My name is Darrius, I have just been diagnosed with hsv-2! I believe I got the disease from a young lady I was messing with! I shaved my pubic hair and I cut my self! 2 days later I had sex with her and she bled on me! two days after that I noticed to raised blisters on my genitals! My question is to you is it possible if the young lady has hiv, is it possible I could of caught it, sense I believe she infected me with hsv?

[Teak]

No you didn't have a risk of contracting HIV in the situation you provided.

[hamad]

i had  sex with condom in massage parlor phuket
but i have  heard from people condoms arent  completely  safe  its  been 30 days  to the  exposure and i havent  got any symptoms  yet  but  still a  fear  which  kills me every day
and the protected intercourse was like for a minute  or  so nuthin more thn that
thnx best regards

[Teak]

You heard wrong. Latex and polyurethane condoms are very effective in preventing HIV and most STD transmission.  

[Bigtom123452]

Teak, two weeks ago I had protected sex with a prostitute, but performed unprotected oral on her.      Three days later I noticed a swollen lymph node behind my left  knee, which has since reduced in size but is still there. Around the same time my right nipple became sore, and inoticed a lump under the bottom edge if it, which has since dissapeared. I found a lump in my left armpit a week and a half after the sex episode, which has also gone downquite a bit and no longer hurts however it is still there, and today I noticed a swollen node in my neck. Is this indicitive of early HIV infection or am I parinoid?

[LIZZIE LOU]

oral sex does NOT transmit hiv.

[Teak]

You're parinoid for no reason you were never at risk.

[JeanClaude]

Please DO NOT hijack other peoples' threads. If you have a question, start your own thread and keep all subsequent queries within it.

-JC-

[merrmerr]

hi i am a woman and recently i performed a hand job and oral sex on a guy withought a condom. He also massaged my clitoris after he had rubbed his penis. He also inserted his fingers inside me and licked my clitoris. He says he hasnt had sex since about a year ago BUT im still worried. Did i put myself at a huge risk of HIV infection or any other STD? help!

[Teak]

No you didn't put yourself at risk of contracting HIV.

[merrmerr]

so you can only get it by having penetrative unprotected sex and sharing needles?
but what if the guy i did it with was HIV+..did i still not put myself at risk??
sorry for the persistance im just really paranoid!

[Teak]

Still no risk.

[Giwad]

I mesd up couple years ago,ive never had viginal sex b4,wen i ws 17 i remembr placin ma dick on a gal ***,thy wer bg so i didnt rich the anus,i dnt rembr getin lymph node or rashes bt nw 3 year later am scard tht she infectd me.ma tongue go smal bumps n smtym is white.could i be hiv positive?

[Vance2335]

Start a new thread dedicated just to your question and it will be answered.

[Anonymous44434]

I am a homosexual. I did a protected sex with a guy about last 2 weeks. Surprisingly and innocently, he took off the condom while we changed the position to Doggy style without notice me, then, he entered my body for about 10-30 seconds (Let's make it one minute) before I realize he doesn't wear any protection.

I request him to pull out immediately and wear a new fresh condom after I realized it.

2 weeks later, now, I am having a sorethroat and is already last for few days. I am worried if this is the symptoms of the HIV infection - But, I had an alcohol session at Christmas Eve and I was thinking if my sorethroat is due to dehydration from the party, or is a symtoms of a HIV. Hope someone who may know the information can share their thoughs with me, much appreciate the help and thanks!

[Vance2335]

Start a new thread dedicated just to your question.

[mumu97]

             I had sex  with  sex worker in Bhaharain 15 days ago and exposes follows.
1) I received oral sex without condom, but she stopped before pre-cum.
2) I inserted my finger inside her virginal.
3) After that I involved sex with double condoms.
4) Finally I used my hand for smoking without hand wash.
5) When I washed my hand realized some injuries between my finger nail and mussels.

What is my risk? Really I am afraid and I couldn't sleep, eat and concentrate my work.
What is the right time for HIV test? What is Ur recommendation?
24Hrs I am thinking about HIV.
what is the

The following symptoms I am feeling.

1) The second week I felt rash
2) Pain in urinal path. It was only two days after that no pain. (After the above symptoms I started smoking heavily)
3) Sore throat
4) Mild headache.
5) Swollen gland in lymph nodes from last two days.

Please reply me as soon as possible

Regards

[Teak]

You were never at risk of contracting HIV.

[mumu97]

Now again i am feeling urinal path pain and mouth ulcer

[Teak]

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