Do I need PEP - am I a high risk?

[marcusshoren]

Hi all,

I'm a guy who earlier today had an encounter with a male escort - this is the first time I've had sex in a year - my last HIV test last month was negative. I decided to try something new so I hooked up with a dominant master and we had vigorous sex for around two hours. During this time I performed oral sex on him several times and we had anal sex (I was passive) 4 times. We used a fresh condom for each round of anal sex  (which was vigorous and  rough, using poppers - Im a bit sore) and to my knowledge none of the condoms broke or failed - I managed to test three of them with water afterwards and they were intact. The escort gave me several enemas to make things cleaner and more hygenic (using his douche which he hadnt used recently and he smeared it with antispectic gel first), he performed watersports on me (urinated on me) and spat on me - the urine and spit both went in my eyes, they stung a bit - there was quite a lot of it. There was also a lot of kissing and exchange of a lot of saliva. In terms of oral sex I have chapped lips and a tingling spot on my lips which seems inflamed i.e stingy but doesnt appear to be bleeding or open - I also bite my cheeks unconciously - this has me worried although I dont think I have any open wounds as such. I have a scratch on my arm from being tied up.

He did not ejaculate at all.

After the session was finished we were talking and I asked the escort his HIV status which he told me he was positive - on treatment and currently undetectable. He told me not to worry as he didnt put me at risk of HIV and he works in healthcare advice. My questions are:

1) Are any of the details above worrisome in terms of hiv infection?

2) Is the oral sex and anal sex detailed above a huge risk?

3) Is saliva/urine in eye an HIV risk?

4) Would you recommend that I seek PEP?

5) If you were me would you be concerned? Would you take PEP in my circumstances?

6) Do I need an HIV test?

[safesex_always]

The condoms just saved you a LOOOT of trouble
thank god you used them and they did not break!!

vigorous or not vigorous is of no concern as your condoms did not break!!!
and the condom will break very noticeably
so no risk!! but you still have risk of other STDs like syphilis etc due to unprotected oral,no biggie just go and get tested for them. Also if it bothers you too much then get an HIV test done as well, the test WILL be nagative and you can rest in peace

forget about this incident and do not repeat it again(you never know when a condom could just snap the next time)

[marcusshoren]

Thanks everyone,

My doctor led me to believe it was still a high risk despite being protected as the sex was very vigorous and went on for an extended period.

thanks for your response - very anxiety settling

M

[RainLover71]

Your condoms never failed you,the oral sex and the saliva in the eye was zero risk of hiv transmission aswell.You don,t require any testing,let alone nPEP.

[Voker]

1.Using condom-safe sex , no risk.
2.You can't get Hiv from Oral sex.
3.Salina isn't infectious.
4.No.
5.No.
6.No

[Teak]

1. NO
2. No risk
3. No risk
4. NO
5. NO
6. NO