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Fingering /condom covered half of penis

Hi I am from India Mumbai.I did fingering with csw.After that i realized that I had a small cut which I got while working in a factory 1 hr before..cut was  small about at most 4mm long..however wound was deep enough for blood to come out(no stitches required --it can be compared to a bad prick).During fingering in vagina however there was no blood oozing,however dry blood was present--I have seen the shinny dry blood.Fingering was done for 15 min After 15 days after this incident I got high fever,night sweats body and head aches ,white mouth,bone pain,dizziness for 12 days.I had all ARS symptoms.These symptoms get intense during night

14 days before this fingering incident I had sex with condoms with a prostitute..Condom covered only half of my penis and there was a dry sore on the uncovered section.

I have done HIV DUO CMIA method  i.e 9weeks (protected sex things) and 50 days after fingering..results were nonreactive 0.21.

Friends this is the worst Christmas I am having.Please help me.Teak you write a lot and the most expert member.You advise is needed.

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You need to accept your negative results and the fact that you have not had exposure. HIV tests are one of the most accurate tests that exist today.

Try to move on, and if necessary, seek professional help.
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I am just crossing checking if there was an unnoticed condom failure.Friends now I can  say that I don't have HIV 1 M and O and HIV 2.My test did not included HIV N and P.

However do you feel that I should check for HIV 1 N and HIV 1-P.Just this last question then I am out of here.
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May be you guys are right Today I have done my 6th HIV DUO(76 days after protected sex and 9 weeks after fingering wound exposure) ..All non reactive.I feel I suffer from HIV obsession .I always knew that I had no risk.However was never sick like this before.My sickness raised my anxiety to astronomical levels.I even resigned from my job due to this obsession.But that is ok I got a good news I cleared my software engg and now I will get  good job soon.
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480448 tn?1426948538
I agree...get a grip and move on.  

Putting this is your status?:  worried272011 Friends my life is shattered!!!

That's ridiculous.  We've told you over and over you had NO risk.  Your symptoms are totally unrelated to HIV.  If you choose not to believe us, that's fine....then choose to believe your negative test result...it proves you do not have HIV!!
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OK, first of all, and I am sorry if i sound a bit tough here but... you really need to get a grip.

You HAVE NOT had a risk and you really really need to accept this.  Your symptoms have nothing to do with HIV as you cannot have caught HIV in the situation you have told us about.

All this drama about your life being over needs to stop, you are getting totally caught up in the fear and totally missing the facts.  A number of people who really know their stuff abotu HIV have told you you did not have a risk.

What more can be said to make you accept that??

If your symptoms had anything to do with HIV you would have tested positive.  ARS symptoms are the bodies reaction to the antibodies being produced to fight the virus, not the actual virus itself.  It is these antibodies that are detected on a test.  So, if you had HIV and IF this was ARS your test would have been positive as it would have detected the antibodies.

Your symptoms have nothing to do with HIV and your test categorically proves this.
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I am not having these symptoms now.They were there for 10 days....My last test was at 35 days since the beginning of the symptoms..If my symptoms are due to HIV then is this enough time for the production of antibodies?

I am from India should I test for HIV 1 N and P
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You can be 100% sure you don't have Hiv.You never had a risk and your test results are proof that you are clear.Please forget about all this and move on with your life.It is not possible that you could Hiv from protected sex and negative test results.See your doctor for those symptoms but they are not related to Hiv at all.
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It was not due to anxiety I took my body temperature..It was 102 F and I was down for 9-11 days .Horribly sick..was never sick like this before.

I tested at 9 weeks after protected sex thing and 50 days after fingering and 35 days from the 1st day of my illness.If my symptoms are due to HIV then is this enough time for the production of antibodies? I just want to be sure that I have not contracted HIV.
Test method was HIV DUO CMIA -Result : Non reactive.
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All those symptoms you describe are related to anxiety and stress.Very common,if you stop worrying they will go away.Once again,you never had a risk.
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I just wanted to cross check weather my symptoms are due to HIV.Technically speaking this is low risk or no risk.However I was never sick like this before and this before.My list of symptoms included
1)Fever
2) headaches
3)bodyaches
4) Stiff neck
5)Blurred vision
6)Dizziness
7)Weight loss
8)White spots on my tongue
9)Dry mouth and white tongue..all this happened  27 days after protected sex exposure and 15 days after fingering...Is it possible that my condom got broken and I couldn't make it out..CSW was very rude to me..because I
Bargained a lot and we had a terrible fight...It is possible that she might have damaged the condom(for revenge)....Friends I have all ARS like symptoms...

As I told earlier that I tested at 9 weeks after protected sex thing and 50 days after fingering and 35 days from the 1st day of my illness.If my symptoms are due to HIV then is this enough time for the production of antibodies? I just want to be sure that I have not contracted HIV.
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186166 tn?1385259382
kindly move along...you do NOT have a hiv concern.
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I have heard that some medications effect HIV tests?
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1878545 tn?1348937282
Nope.
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I just have last question.Does Malarial drugs effect HIV testing
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Merry Christmas!!!
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never had flu for almost 5 years and this was the worst in my life..
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186166 tn?1385259382
we all get sick from time to time.   yours was NOT hiv related.
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What freaked me out was this bad flu .Every symptoms corresponded to ARS.This was the most unusual sickness i ever had.This is the reason I am taking precautionary measures.Do you think that this is required?
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186166 tn?1385259382
cuts start healing, almost immediately, from the inside out...clotting off and sealing any entry into the bloodstream.

NO ONE has ever contracted hiv from fingering...cut or no cut.

the other incident you speak of was PROTECTED.

further testing is not needed...you dont have hiv :)
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The fingering was zero risk and the head of your penis was covered so you never had a risk and no further testing is required.You're safe.
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Now however I have no symptoms..I am fine now..During this period no medications has worked on these symptoms...Every medication failed..sounds like ARS..I didn't told my doc about this sexual incident..I have taken all range of antibiotics from bacterial to malarial ...nothing worked however...friends please help me..
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