OK, first of all, relax. Most people don't have HIV, and he can't give you what he didn't have. So overall, your chances of having HIV are quite low.
You did test too early for a conclusive result, though. The good news is that you can take ANY test right now and get a conclusive result. That means that even an over-the-counter test like Oraquick will give you your result, and you won't need to test or worry anymore.
You have to wait for 28 days minimum with any test so your test didn't prove you were negative for the most recent encounters. You can take any test today and get a conclusive result.
Even though we were unprotected from October 2016 through January 2? I still have to wait 28 days?
I just finished the Oracheck and it came back negative!
Thank you for helping to ease my worry and the quick solution to my madness. You rock!