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really want to move on pz help

all sexual intercourse happened in Philippines, every time i was drank n now i quite !!
risk#1
unprotected virginal sex with (csw) test at 4,6,10,13 week all negative.

risk#2
protected oral (i received) and virginal, menstrual blood on condom. no test

risk#3
protected oral (i received) and virginal,she (csw) was on my top , I pushed her back for changing position ...condom totally slipped  off i saw half of the condom was inside her vagina and half was out side ......chick the condom it was fine...then i wash my self put a new condom and continue the sex. no test

risk# 2 & 3 happened 2 week ago....i already get my ans from this forum but NOW i saw many doc said condom reduce the risk for HIV infection but it is not 100% safe!!!! AFTER 2 WEEK I WILL GO BACK MY COUNTRY AND I REALLY DON'T WANT TO  INFECT MY GIRLFRIEND.......

begging for advices...........................

can i move on and just forget thous events ?  
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That stat is there due to broken and misused condoms.

Never say any Dr on this site say to test after protected sex unless it is to ease your mind.
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sorry for make u upset !! Because of many doc says condom reduce risk over 95% but not 100% (saw on internet) could be misinformation n also saw doc HHH says if he know he had sex with a positive person(protected) then he must had a test i don't know any of them are positive or not!! ur right i must not to have sex so i don't have anxiety.(if the situation like this).....i m 22 afraid n dot want to infect my gf .sorry again
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I have to say this question has upset me, "how can u say condom protected sex is zero risk not evan need testing". Are you seriously asking that question? How is condom sex no risk? I mean seriously your asking that?

My advice is not to have sex so you don't have anxiety.

Oral sex is not a risk based on several studies.
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thanx again for u r help. i know this is a busy forum but if any of u kindly explain  why my risk is zero n how can u say condom protected sex is zero risk not evan need testing ?
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Yes, your entire post was read. You had 1 risk and you tested in the approiate time frame. You do not have HIV.
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thax u so much for helping us . do u read my last para ? what is ur opinion about it?
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You don't have HIV and you have a conclusive test to prove it.
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