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Oral sex-


I did an oral sex more than 5 month ago without condom. A woman sucked my penis for less than 1min and I *** (in that time my penis was in vertical position and it was Cumming slowly ). after around 20 minutes I did vaginal sex on her with a condom.
Is it possible to get STD particular HIV with this sex? I got after 2month the following symptoms;

After some weeks it was itchy my whole body; particularly skin of my penis, my stomach and legs). 1month after this the following symptoms started.
Fever (occasionally since 3month ago, still exists)
Fatigue(it last around 2month)
Red rash on ankles (purpura rash like, it last 3days)
Night sweating (occasionally, still exists)
A little Swelling on my thyroid nodes area (still exists)

Three of these symptoms last around 3months (fatigue, night sweats and occasionally fever).

Can this be the symptoms of HIV or maybe hepatitis? I’m very anxious about this. Regarding the rash, I have to say that I was using Ibrofen tablet that time for my tooth abscess (can the rash be a result of the tablet). Some days before starting these symptoms I was so worry about the unprotected oral sex and I was so stressful and anxious. Can it Leeds to these symptoms?  Homany percent can it be HIV?

I think I have lost the weight to some extent. Still I have night sweats (some nights).

Please help me,
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Listen, you are overreacting.  Like I said in a different post- The odds you got HIV were about 1 in 10,000,000.  Do the math.  Let's say this woman has a 1 in a 1000 chance of having HIV.  This number is probably actually much higher but I'll be conservative.  The odds of getting HIV from unprotected oral sex is 1 in 10,000.  It is virtually a no risk event.  Multiply those two odds together.  1 in 10,000,000.  There you go.

Sex with a condom also indicates around a 0 risk event if the condom doesn't break.  

Those symptoms are probably anxiety, stress, and maybe even a virus that you happened to catch.  When people get anxious and stressed out, their immune systems become weakened.  

Sleep easy, man, you're fine.
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Actually, I don't agree with the statement One in 10,000,000. How ?

Logically, think about it, if your exposed to the virus, no amount of odds will be in your favor. Take my situation for example.

Any how, according to many experts the odds that experts such as Dr. Hans and Dr. Edward seem any individual Positive from such exposure. None.

Sure that may help for a while, but it may help more if you have been tested. Is it easy ? No its not easy, a lot of emotional toll takes place.

Should you happen to test ( + ) such as my-self, no one may believe you.

Who knows. If you ask me there is no such thing as odds. If your exposed to the infection, than you have been infection. Simple.

Symptoms means something. Logically, your body is saying something is wrong .

Anxiety is a  waste basket for many individuals on this board including the so called " expert ". If you low risk, than it's anxiety causing the problem. What none-sense.

I believe you should work with your doctor in finding out what may be causing your symptoms.

Test Recommended by me: Chlamydiae, Gonorrhea, Staph, CMV, HHV 6, Cocksaki Virus, CBC, Full Panel Lympocyte.

This should help your doc evaluate on what may be causing problems.

Let me know if I can be more assistance to you.

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MOVE ON. Enough is enough.
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Thank you for your comment.
I forgot to mention one symptom in the list. I got symptoms like leukopenia as I got fever, rash, night sweat... . I'm so worry about this. (I had tooth bases in that time and I don't know that if it can led to leukopenia  or not!)
the other thing is that I have still swollen thyroid and while i shave it appears more than before then i shave as long time as it is possible. Please help me I'm so anxious.
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thank you for your comment,

if it is true that you have mentioned then what is these symptoms with me, particularry NIGHT SWEAT whic it is still exist. what shall i do?? I'm so so afraied about this.
I forgot to tell you that some time I feel pain on my lymph nodes (under arm).
please help me?
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symptoms mean nothing you did not have risk of contracting hiv. by the way ARS swallen lymph nodes are not painfull and they dont come 5 months after the exposure. go see a doctor of you have a concern.
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